I’ll speak as someone who actually went through this as a kid. Me and my sister were forced to follow my mothers beliefs as kids, both religion and diet.
School, party’s and play dates were always being spoiled be embarrassing situations around food. It really was awful watching all your friends being the same and you being the odd one out.
Thankfully for me, my dad didn’t follow my mothers beliefs and when I was around 8 she caved in and allowed me and my sister to choose. That was unquestionably the best decision she made for us as kids.
I can’t describe how happy it made us, we were now ‘normal’ again, just like all our friends.
Our relationship with my mum would definitely have been worse now if she had continued to force her beliefs on us and not given us the choice at such a young age.
If you are forcing your kids to follow your beliefs, be aware that they might not be having as good a time as they make you believe. Me and my sister still hold some resentment over what we were forced to follow as kids, thankfully, we got to choose.
Please give your kids a choice.