I come from a broken family and am quite aware of my Dad not being aorund at the same sort of age my eldest is at now.
The extra money would pay for us to renovate the house we bought as a repossesion rather than spending all my lump sum on it when I leave the RAF.
I agree that it will likely be very very shit, having done 9 months out of 2 years in afgan a while back I know how crap it can be.
I think Im going to give it amiss though to be honest, I want to see my kids grow up unlike my father did.