Car tyre sidewalls are thin to allow flex and a quieter, more comfortable ride. The sidewalls aren’t designed to cope with kerb strikes in the same way as 4×4 or tractor tyres. Whilst the tyre may hold it’s shape and air while stationary, it will be weakened. Once laden and travelling at speed, a moderate pothole that wouldn’t burst a healthy tyre, could case the already weakened sidewall to fail. The rim could then dig in, causing the car to flip over and land on a baby robin or child’s face.
You are a monster for allowing the mother of your children to drive such a death trap. A new tyre is less than yer average Castelli jaikit. Get yer wallet oot!
Oh, please also see Reg 27 of the Road Vehicle C&U Regs 1986. 27D is a torn sidewall. I can check it tomorrow if you like?