[Dude (that makes me sound cool, right?), it’s not character assassination, it’s taking the piss. I’m sure there are a few that just post nasty shit, but post a thread about what’s the best variety of red rose for an exposed location with acidic soil and some nob will call you a selfish git for using soil space that could be used to grow vegetables to give to the needy.
You do post with delightful predicableness on stuff, much in the same way I spent many years posting the most unconfident and needy shit on house renovation matters (I honestly didn’t know if ripping up a concrete path would someone effect something else with the house for example. The house that has been stood for a hundred years).
People took the piss. Accept your piss-taking qualities but don’t let them define how you feel about yourself, it’s generally banter (men do that as I’m sure you know, just doesn’t always translate well on the internet)
You’re married, got kids that love you and I’m sure nobody thinks of you as one of the ‘bad uns’ on here, the which of undoubtedly have more problems than everyone with RS6 aspirations on PistonHeads rolled together. You just dither and overthink; well sod me because none of us do that too much!
What your family thinks of you is important, nobody else.
Yours, Claire Raynor