MODS – duplicate log in I know – please let this one slide.

I know about him.
She doesn’t know I know about him.

She’s had plenty of opportunity to discuss our relationship (mostly at my insistence) but she’s made little effort.
She tells me she’s “unsure” about how she feels about life, and what she wants from it.
I’ve recently become very certain about this same concept, and soon ‘her mind’ will be made up.
Tomorrow will be the last day of my marriage.

My family will be torn apart, which is the hardest part of all of this.
But I’m not willing to put up with this any more.