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If you were saying in discussion something like, your a very outgoing .....
Is it Woman, Girl, Lady?
Note this isn't a chat up, I'm just wondering which would be received in black and white as "flattering" rather than "insulting"?
Bit of crumpet?
How about "friend" or her name?
You're would be better
Person?
Bird!
Surely it depends on age and, possibly, your relationship with her?
Clunge?
Doris?
I knew this wouldn't start, let alone end well...
Unit. Totally gender neutral and impossible to cause offense.
Sheila ?
Bit of..stuff,love receptical, baby maker, crumpet, skirt...etc.
How old are you? I'd go for 'woman', but if you're both very young then that might be weird. Or 'character'. More neutral. 'Individual'? Or just go with the catch-all solution of 'dude'.
Lass
You're very outgoing?
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Just told my wife she was a very outgoing wasp-duck.
Not impressed. 😥
5thElefant - Member
Unit. Totally gender neutral and impossible to cause offense.POSTED 9 MINUTES AGO # REPORT-POST
Genuine LoL!
[s]Penis docking station?[/s] Girl
Under 45=girl
Over 45=lady
But it really depends on how well you know her, and to an extent, what type of friend she is,
Example: i went to school with a girl, we have been friends for 40 years, and I wouldn't even flinch if she asked me how my love life was going, but other 99% of friends id be mortified if they said that.
Only you can decide.
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I can't believe this hasn't been asked already....
Is she fit?
Standards are slipping around here....
you're very outgoing...
...for a fat lass.
I think its the "very outgoing" bit that's your problem. Could be read as negative ie "you are loud and inappropriate"
What are you really trying to say?
" for a bit of totty"
Well firstly it's "you're".
How about You're very outgoing?
Probably doesn't matter now. Question was 3/4 of an hour ago. Moment's passed.
Sugar tits
bit a poontang.
'sugar chebs' is my goto for this
Sausage park
A nice bit of grip.
'Hen' is the Swedish gender neutral pronoun used when the gender is not known or is not desirable to say. Ironically to us like chick or bird . Go with that ?
Why are you texting her if you're not chatting her up?
He's taking things slowly
of similar age
To whom? I don't know if you're 14 or 85, I imagine the answer would differ slightly across that range.
I predict this thread will either be 6 pages or closed by the mods. Possibly both 🙂
Are you aiming to get out of the 'friend zone'?
I recently had to state on a form my relationship to the women I've lived with for 20 years, best I could come up with was "Lady-friend".
Not sure if that helps.
bint. Always works
dp
Darling
Are you aiming to get out of the 'friend zone'?
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dp
At least wait until the second date.
Woman.
Or just her name?
weeksy - Member
Why are you texting her if you're not chatting her up?
You know, its possible to talk to a woman/lady/girl that you don't want to shag.
Yes she's fit, I'm 44 she 35, so actually not similar ages. Not aiming to get out of the friend zone I'm married with kids and wouldn't be asking this on a public forum.
Context is I've known her through work for as long as I've known my wife, who also knows of her btw. So just chatting. Started cause I'm working in Dorchester and she suggested I go and see the Cerne Abbas. 😯
Kryton57 - MemberI knew this wouldn't start, let alone end well...
Middle is good though