Stanley – google gamefaq, very good for walkthroughs and the like for all platforms. Also keeps the popups down to a minimum. IGN is also pretty good for stuff.
As for games to get for the PS3, Uncharted (1 or 2) are very cheap and excellent to play, 3 is due out in 12 months. Currently playing the Free Infamous and enjoying it loads.
Oblivion has a counter-intuitive levelling system and you can fiddle the game using an elastic band so that it’s easy anyways.
Much prefer DragonAge (and a new one is out soon as a continue on), a lot more to it I thought, certainly more enjoyable.
Valkyerie Chronicles (sp) is excellent strategy/RPG game that wasn’t advertised enough.
Ah, a pressie – a great one would be to buy him PSN credit for Australia (make sure you sort it as Au credit).