Right, after 4 years of regularly using dating websites, I can safely say I’ve seen every sort of woman the interweb can throw at us.
What you’ve got here Dez, is a text lover. And you’ve really not helped the situation. After a year or so, I realised that the only way to have any success on dating websites is to meet them ASAP. Firstly, this demonstrates that you’re a proactive, decisive person (a well-known leg-opener) and secondly, it stops you wasting hours of your time texting/messaging women with no chance of sex.
You need to develop a routine of messaging that gets them off the website, gets their phone number, gets them in a safe, well-lit bar with plenty of escapes, and gets them in bed. My record was 3 messages.
I’m not saying this one isn’t recoverable – it is, but it might take a bit of creative thinking. The problem is, she’s probably not good in social situations which is why she’s single, and why she’s so comfortable indulging in aimless text banter. But you can exploit this vulnerability… (we’ll cover that in lesson 2).
So, first job is to get her met. Get the conversation round to the sort of people you’ve been finding on the website (make up some hilarious stories to get her laughing) and moan about how POF is full of women that just want penfriends, rather than actual dates. That should get her working in the right direction… While you’re at it, tell her how everyone seems so uptight… “What ever happened to a bit of good old fashioned flirting??”… I guarantee this will make her far more suggestive, reducing the sex barrier before you even meet.
I should charge for this shit, it’s gold dust.