nickf that’s particularly sociopathic behaviour even for STW, and it’s only Monday
Maybe so; at the time I had no money and really couldn’t afford to hire/buy a DJ for the event, and it would have meant Mrs Nickf buying a dress as well. Total cost would have been not far short of £150, which, at the time, would have been a real stretch. No-one mentioned until the invite arrived a month before the wedding that it was black tie.
It’s not like I wouldn’t have worn a perfectly respectable suit for the occasion, but they were insistent that it had to be pukka black tie.
At the end of the day I’ve lost no sleep over it. If that makes me a sociopath, so be it.