this is what ive got working i other areas of the house without issues
The one on the back of that link does not appear to have a neutral terminal, the one I turned up on Amazon did but the point is the same, a true no neutral has the a capacitor and or battery integral to the switch which charges when the light is switched on then discharges over the course of the light being off. The switch is dc powered taking a charge from the ac line. It’s a normally closed switch so relies on the power supply to to switch off the light, when it’s near discharge it’ll switch the lights on for a few minutes, charge, then power the lights down.
In a (not really) no neutral switch like yours the capacitor across the fixture is providing a constant trickle current through the lighting ring rather than having any sort of internal supply. It’s an ac device and the capacitor is a cheat to get around not having a neutral, the switch is self is internally the same as a with neutral variant of the same.
It’s not the issue you’ve got though. The ballast (starter/compensator) kicks out about 600v or more (Iirc for a 6ft tube its 1.2kV) to start your tube and the pd across your fixture in a florescent drops to about -300v at switch off. These sudden spikes will be killing your delicate switches.
If your switch is running without the capacitor across the fixture what’s maintaining your switch is the capacitance of the compensator. I don’t think you should be getting any trickle over your fixture, if check with an actual spark but it sounds to me that you may have a fault in your fixture l.