Like I said, I am trusting him. I work in S/C management so I know all too well about scope creep!
Fair enough, but it’s your money and your house, so really it’s a question of whether his explanation makes sense to you. If it’s just his personal preference rather than a valid reason, then you have every right to ask for the job to be done as you want unless there’s a good reason not to.
I had a similar experience recently over the size of a set of beams in a loft, which boiled down to me wanting larger cross-section ones and the builder- also a mate – preferring to use smaller ones. It was all about aesthetics rather than structure and after some calm discussions, we went with my preference.
There was a little grumpiness, but ultimately we’re the ones who have to look at those beams every day and it would have irked me if they’d been ‘too small’.
I’m not saying you should insist because you’re the client btw, but if you do have a preference and you think it’ll irk you if it’s not done that way, you have every right to say so in a grown-up, non-confrontational sort of way 🙂