OP – give it some time on here, both for replies and to start understanding how you can contribute here, and gain from here. It is a genuine community, with give and take.
As for snobs on bikes, I don’t really recognise that where I ride. I have jealousy about folk having very nice bikes, but that’s on me not them. I actually find mountain biking incredibly friendly, supportive and positive as a whole. 🤗
I think we do have an issue of a bunch of testosterone fulled ‘lads groups’ at trail centres, all foul mouths and bravado, but that’s few and far between. There are idiots an all areas of life.
The best retort for anyone who you feel looks down on you is to let you riding do the talking. There is a satisfaction in overtaking or keeping up with the latest enduro-weapon on my hardtail. 😎
You be the one having most fun, and spread the love and happiness. I’m forever encouraging kids and adults, always up for some positive banter and being friendly. The classic “be the change”. 👍