My Nasty Gran used to say “your Father worked hard for all you’ve got, show him some respect” pretty much all the time until he Died.. then we lost touch which thinking back on it was a good thing we did, nasty beastly Woman.
My Nice Gran used to say “where am I? who are you? where are we going? oooooh I don’t know what I’m doing, where’s Dick? (My Grandad) why are we all floating?” etc. Dementia or Alzheimers, one of them.. not always in suffer mode though, when she wasn’t she was the nicest, kindest Gran you could ever meet. Outlasted my Grandad by 2 years, died of a broken heart my Mom reckons.
Thanks OP for bringing those memories back.. 😕