I was having an argument with my girlfriend today and she was getting more and more angry. She told me I was absolute in my thinking and it was really irritating.
Now, there are a handful of subjects where I am sure about what I think. Because of that, when I find myself having a conversation about one of these subjects I tend to be quite direct because I know I can back up what I’m saying. Normally I come across as a lot more thoughtful because I’m considering other view points and I’m not 100% sure what I’m saying can be backed up.
The subjects where I’m sure of what I think have taken years of study and consideration to get to the stage I’m at. The number of subjects that fall into this category can be counted on one hand.
It seems like the two methods of sounding very sure of yourself are to know almost everything about a subject or to know almost nothing about a subject.
I have to spend less time on facebook.