FWIW I tend to view the personas on here along the lines of 'would I go for a ride or pint with them'?
Having never met either of the 'combatants' in the flesh, my perception of Ton is that he 'appears' to be a normal bloke, with wind-ups, a bit of a laugh and some interesting video posts, nothing terribly malicious or controversial, just fairly normal internet banter. Therefore "mine's a pint of bitter thanks"
TJ on the other hand (and I would agree with Toys previous post on this re belittling/berating and also add browbeating) does tend to deal with anyone who disagrees with his point of view in a highly supercilious manner while aguing to the point where his 'opponent' ultimately loses the will to live, never mind argue. Just waaaaaay too serious. And as such it would be <hides under table in case he notices me and wants a pint/chat>
They are probably both good blokes in 'real life' but that is how they come across to me on here.