Is the main difference on the Dura ace just thinner rims?
IIRC the non series whelsets borrow the rims from the groupset above and the hubs from the one below. So RS61 is the 105 rim on tiagra level hubs, RS81 is ultegra hubs and dura ace rims. So the difference between RS81 and R9100 would only be stuff like titanium freehub bodies (not sure if both are tubeless though?).
Cant afford DA, but my RS61 wheels have been absolutely faultless as my winter wheels despite my less than subtle riding, I’m more of a bunnyhopper than a ride-around-the-pothole-er! I even rode up Aston Hill (the road, not the DH venue) with a rear puncture, the tyre stayed on the tubeless bead and didn’t roll off the whole way up (I think I picked up a bit of flint in the detritus at the junction from the main road).