My aim was to allay any fears ampthill had, not encourage him to continue without servicing. I firmly believe that if a few hundred extra miles per servive was a porblem there would be far more car spilling their engine internals on the tarmac all over the country.
Overruning a service interval by thousands regularly will shorten engine life through extra wear in a variety of componants, it might be the final starw for an existing weakness but I cant believe small overruns on servive intervals will cause a specific a terminal failure in any modern engine.
For the record, when I did a short commute I got the oil changed every 6 months with apporved spec oil. Now I have a long comute I get the car fully serviced every 9 months, as it is getting long in the tooth and I would like to catch any issues early.
Edit: I didn’t say either car in my anecdote was grand, I said both kept working for an extended period without servicing.