I can see it, talking from a 32 year old perspective who is earning and whose peers’ are earning 30k+ a year;
My childless friends are driving lease/hp bmws/audis Im driving a 10 year old high mileage mondeo with a death rattle.
Childless friends have Dslr cameras with 600 note lenses. I have a camera phone and a 99 quid canon.
Childless friends have goretex pro berghaus, northface walking gear. I have regatta/craghoppers.
Childless friends go to Vietnam, Australia, Thailand etc. We go fuerteventura or camping.
Childless friends have top end bling carbon bikes. Mines mid range.
Childless friends have 4k curved 10 bit hdr screens with full sky package. I’ve got low rent 4k on tick with Freesat.
Childless friends buy named brand food and goods at supermarket. I’ll buy own brand weetabix they’ll buy the real deal. They’ll buy nurofen for £3 instead of 40p ibuprofen.
Childless friends go clothes shopping and spend 60 notes plus on a pair of jeans or a couple of hundred on a jacket. I buy supermarket clothes, primarni or eBay specials.
That’s my observations. Its not something I regret. Our children were planned and we knew sacrifices would have to be met for many years. I’m looking forward to the childcare bill going down once school starts so we can have a bigger house as currently childcare is akin to a second mortgage and we have two good wages coming in to the house.