I weigh 10st and have 210/190, yet get 4/5 months out of a set of pads?!
Maybe I don’t go fast enough!
From my experiences (as a relatively light bloke of between 11 and 12 stone) lighter guys go through pads much slower than heavier guys. Sorry to all the fatties out there, but if you want your disc brake pads to wear, lose some weight! Mine have always lasted a good length of time, even got 2 full weeks of DH riding in Morzine/Les Gets out of a full set of disc pads before (well, I changed them with a day to spare, but there was enough in them to have lasted), whilst others I were riding with went through 2 or 3 full sets each. I know I wasn’t breaking less, or that I’m some kind of god of a rider (far from it), just that those that were munching through their brake pads were significantly more portly than myself.
FWIW, it will be harder to “bed in” pads with larger rotors, due to their size meaning its harder to get the heat into them. But once they’ve bedded in, pads should last longer with larger rotors because you won’t be getting them so hot so frequently. Or some such reason like that anyway.