We’re getting bitten by this also. I earn very marginally over 50k, we’ve 2 kids (2 and 3), so I’m going to have to self assess and then repay some/all of it depending if I do any overtime all year. The missus stays at home to look after the children because a) we’d prefer it that way and b) she couldn’t earn enough to cover the cost of two in nursery.
We’re not exactly struggling but life is not cheap and we have to watch what we spend very carefully.
Friends of ours, both parents working and with a household income of almost £90k and they get to keep the child benefit.
We can and will do without this money (it’ll be put away either for the kids or to pay the tax bill at year end), and I’d happily give it up if I thought this was being done more fairly. As it is I’m going to be as awkward as I can and will make the feckers work for the money.