What exactly are you not getting on with? Maybe some of the collective wisdom here can help you sort it out..
I can offer you a tiny missive – mine, and a mates, air shocks blew through their travel easily, you set the sag right and it feels ok for the first 40-50% of travel and then just goes all squidgy on big hits. Then you whack the pressure up to deal with the big hits and its way too hard for smaller bumps etc..He is shall we say “big boned and I’m a bit of carthorse too. He got a smaller aircan for his rp23, and I just filled the aircan in mine with cut up tommy tippe cups to reduce the air volume until it felt right. Increased compression ratio changes the way the pressure ramps up as it gets to 75-100% travel.