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Posted by: binners

The fact remains that all egg-based games are shit, with the possible exception of egg and spoon races, which at least appear to have some form of rules that everyone understands.

You not understanding a given game is a "you" failing.  I can explain it to you if you like?


 
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Posted by: binners

It's just a business - the winning team is the team who has the most wealthy owners/backers as they can afford to buy the best players

As a Manchester United supporter I’d advise you take a look at the squillions of pounds we’ve spent over the last 10 years and then have a look at where that actually got us

 

I guess they sold a load of merch and stuff, so technically successful? 😉

How many duvet covers, coffee mugs, branded watches and other such tat do they need to turn over in order to be a successful football team marketing machine?

 


 
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One time I attended an ice hockey match between Manchester and Sheffield, then the two best teams in the UK and sworn rivals, they sold out the MEN (now AO) Arena.  16,245 people. 

16,220 is the capacity of the home ground of...Blackpool FC. Ice hockey is a totally marginal sport in the UK. Of course it doesn't get get front page (or even back page) headlines.

16,000 is about 15% of how many people go to my council's summer fair weekend. I wouldn't expect that to be mentioned in national media much either.

 


 
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Posted by: politecameraaction

16,220 is the capacity of the home ground of...Blackpool FC.

Do they often sell out?

It's all relative.  I was at the same arena this weekend for Strictly Live, the participants were all commenting on how huge it was compared to the home of the TV finale venue, Blackpool ballroom.

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Ice hockey is a totally marginal sport in the UK. Of course it doesn't get get front page (or even back page) headlines.

Of course it's marginal.  But not even once, for the biggest match in UK history?  Not a sentence in the "... and finally" section?

This is exactly what I'm driving at.  Other sports don't get a look-in between the football and the other football.  
This isn't "sports news," it's practically religious propaganda.


 
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My Rashgeneralisationometer just exploded.  How can you tell me it's not relevant tomewhen (amongst other reasons) I used to play it?

It might be of more interest if it got more exposure, perhaps?   

But it won't change your enjoyment of it would it ? I enjoy watching world cup DH and whilst there's an economic reason to make the sport more widely watched from my perspective if it didn't grow at all I'd still love watching it . Granted NFL and WCDH are miles apart in terms of exposure. 

One of the things I tell my kids is im not interested in what they dont like , I want to know what gets them excited and focus on that . But alongside that I think if you just write off a certain thing like movies or sport you're potentially missing out on some great experiences. 


 
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I am however required by law to listen to 6 Music and

I love music, i play instruments i have been a sound engineer.

But i detest radio 6.


 
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Posted by: dudeofdoom

I think your age pays a big part, I prefer similar music to that from my youth and find modern pop mostly meh, although appreciate some.

this need not be so tho it is for many.   I constantly seek out new and new to me music.  Music is a huge thing in my life tho I cannot play an instrument.   New artists and genres are a delight


 
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No cougar - its films do not work for me for the reasons I explained.  I have tried many times.  ONly 3 in the last 30 years I have watched the whole thing.  the medium does not work for me

I feel a bit sorry for you. “Films” encompasses a huge range of works and give a window into stories and worlds that can entertain, move, educate and inspire. If you don’t have the gene or whatever for appreciating at least some part of them it’s a big loss for you. 

 

its more that books are far more entertaining to me.   the speed at which i can gather the information and the images created are far better to me.   films are just dull in comparison as i am constrained by the vision of the filmmaker 

funnily enough live theatre is ok to me

long live neurodivergance

 


 
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But it won't change your enjoyment of it would it ?

No, but it would lessen my annoyance at "Here is the sports news.  Footballfootballfootballfootballfootballfootballfootballfootballdeepbreathfootballfootballfootball and now Anthea with the weather."

Wouldn't you like it if more people were made aware of WC DH and could potentially get turned onto it?  


 
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Posted by: tjagain

films are just dull in comparison as i am constrained by the vision of the filmmaker 

When reading books are you not similarly constrained by the vision of the author?

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the speed at which i can gather the information and the images created are far better to me.

On this point I agree.  If I need to learn something I'd rather read it rather than watch a video of someone explaining it.  I can read faster than someone can talk.

 


 
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When reading books are you not similarly constrained by the vision of the author?

no because i create a mental image from their words.  with a film the image is created for you.   also films are much simpler stories by and large.  even the 3 films of lord of the rings misses out a lot of the story and takes what 8 or 9 hours.  the book i can read in 3 for a richer denser story 


 
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Posted by: binners

As a graphic designer, I am however required by law to listen to 6 Music and compile playlists of Bolivian Speed Garage and South American Industrial Pan Pipe Techo, or we get struck off. Sometimes it becomes a chore...

Nah, that’s just on Saturday afternoons. I refuse to listen to any radio on a Saturday, or watch TV on a Saturday evening. I also refuse to pay any attention whatsoever to Traitors. 

There does seem to be a subtle drive to try to persuade people that Traitors is absolutely required viewing so that they feel included in some sort of big social event.

Sorry if that’s the case, but they’re mistaking me for someone who gives a shit.


 
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Posted by: billabong987

Caring what experts/critics have to say is where you went wrong

I don’t care, never did; I’ve always made my own decisions and choices based on my own personal opinion and tastes. My tastes in music show that to be the case.


 
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Posted by: Cougar

When reading books are you not similarly constrained by the vision of the author?

No, how can I be? I’m reading words that describe certain things, but my own mind makes a visual reference that may be significantly different from what the author had in mind.

Sometimes an author describes a location in such a way that I get a vivid picture of the place, and in one particular instance a film that was made of the book actually used the place I imagined as the actual location in the film!

The book is Stardust, by Neil Gaiman, and when I first read it, and the description of the village of Wall, I instantly thought of Castle Combe, and I was in the village, which is only five miles from where I live, when they were setting up to film there. I later met Neil at a book signing, and I asked him if he knew of Castle Combe when he wrote the book, and he said no, it was pure coincidence! 


 
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So books simultaneously provide a richer more comprehensive experience and also leave more to the imagination compared with films?

Uh.  Pick one?

 


 
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I love music, i play instruments i have been a sound engineer.

But i detest radio 6.

Why, exactly? There’s no other radio station that I know of that plays such a wide and varied range of different types and styles of music in the U.K. Since it started over twenty five years ago, it’s introduced me to more bands and artists than any other single source, other than Uncut Magazine. 6Music, over the course of two or three years brought to my attention something like a dozen Canadian artists who I’d never heard of before, and apart from a couple that broke up, I saw them all when they came over to the U.K., and I still keep up to date with them and their music. 
There are several 6Music presenters who I’ve seen playing with their original bands, and one who I’ve seen several times as a solo artist and even been on stage with!

 


 
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Do people really waste "time and brainspace" opening a thread whose title is of no interest to them, reading the posts and then typing out a reply? Have YOU genuinely got nothing better to be doing or thinking about?

The thread title didn’t really encapsulate the  OP, so yes, I opened it.  Having read it, I was genuinely surprised that people “worry” enough about not liking what other people like to write a treatise on it hoping that there’re others who might validate them enough to comment.

I replied to a whole one, single post yesterday, so perhaps I’m just a little too busy to give the time and thought that it apparently deserves…


 
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It's all subjective innit 👍 who knows in 10 years time people may look back with fondness at the Melania film and think " That was a cultural high point for the age " 🤔😉


 
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Posted by: blokeuptheroad

I can grow to appreciate something that doesn't grab me straight away.

Surely this is all art, no? Our taste's change, we become different people who appreciate different things? As a teenager I couldn't abide Pink Floyd - too slow too booooring, but as I've aged, I've become more appreciative of some of their songs.  


 
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[Other sports don't get a look-in between the football and the other football.   This isn't "sports news," it's practically religious propaganda.

The BBC sports news page this morning is a lot of football, and also darts, tennis, golf, snooker, boxing, cycling, netball, rugby, ice hockey, running, winter sports, motor car racing...

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport

Is this one of these things you've convinced yourself of but doesn't actually exist in reality?

 


 
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Posted by: binners

The fact remains that all egg-based games are shit, with the possible exception of egg and spoon races, which at least appear to have some form of rules that everyone understands.

Plus, egg and spooners don’t wear armour. 


 
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Quite the opposite, if it's critically acclaimed or universally liked but not immediately pleasing to me, I try hard to see what others see in it.  Because I worry I may be missing out. I want to see if, with a deeper understanding, or knowledge of the back story I can grow to appreciate something that doesn't grab me straight away.

 

One comment to this above was 'understanding leads to appreciation' and it sounds like that's what you're trying to do. Perhaps for some it's more about the introduction or first experience that leads to interest, and that creates the appreciation?

I might find the subject or topic of art generally a bit dull but works of art in a gallery can move me, then I look out for more along those lines and find other aspects or styles that I like branching off my entry point.

Or it might be that the gallery someone was in Paris during a holiday and they were in a frame of mind that meant it was more emotive, and memory is about emotion more than most things. The memory and association might aid the interest. 

We all perceive things in different ways and so much of art is an expression of experience and emotion. So appreciation can be circumstantial. 


 
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You not understanding a given game is a "you" failing.  I can explain it to you if you like?

Come off it…. don't start pretending there’s rules 

https://www.thedailymash.co.uk/sport/sport-headlines/rugby-under-increasing-pressure-to-come-up-with-set-of-rules-20170222122580


 
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who knows in 10 years time people may look back with fondness at the Melania film and think " That was a cultural high point for the age " 🤔😉

I hope I’m dead before I have to live in such an age!


 
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Posted by: tjagain

films are just dull in comparison as i am constrained by the vision of the filmmaker 

So your vision is the only one of value?  Ok. The rest of us are maybe less perfect. 


 
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The BBC sports news page this morning is a lot of football, and also darts, tennis, golf, snooker, boxing, cycling, netball, rugby, ice hockey, running, winter sports, motor car racing...

 

Exactly .. It's almost as if the percentage of coverage is based on popularity? : ) 

Football is a good example here, it's the same as art in that interest probably comes from making a lasting connection with the show somehow (since for most it's not about actually playing the game). Objectively it's a rules-based ball game like many others so the level of popularity is likely to be about the opportunities for emotive connections. Generational and social things.


 
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The thread title didn’t really encapsulate the  OP, so yes, I opened it.  Having read it, I was genuinely surprised that people “worry” enough about not liking what other people like to write a treatise on it hoping that there’re others who might validate them enough to comment.

I replied to a whole one, single post yesterday, so perhaps I’m just a little too busy to give the time and thought that it apparently deserves…

Thanks. You've now posted twice on a thread you apparently have no interest in. And waded through dozens of posts to find the one you quoted above. Just to sneer.  Seems your time isn't quite as valuable as you thought?

A selective quote which dodged the question I asked you. What were you doing yesterday which made you feel so superior to us time wasters chatting about random bollocks on here?

A chat btw which absolutely doesn't deserve any of your incredibly important and valuable time. Feel free to ignore it and carry on solving world hunger or whatever worthy stuff you get up to at the weekend. Which seemingly allows you to sneer at "tragic" people wasting their time on a cycle forum on a wet Sunday afternoon.


 
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Or it might be that the gallery someone was in Paris during a holiday and they were in a frame of mind that meant it was more emotive, and memory is about emotion more than most things. The memory and association might aid the interest. 

One of those occasions when the setting and crowd is more entertaining than the art. The people gawping at the Mona Losa are far more interesting than the painting. Same goes for many sporting events, take away the crowd and it's nothing. TDF mountain stage: people riding bikes up a hill, add a caravane and thousands of pissed up idiots and it's entertaining. Football match to empty stadium - nothing to see here. 

As for films, series, music  or whatever you have at home, I doubt you even like the same stuff as your partner let alone some randoms on a bike forum. You'd have to pay me a significant sum to get me to sit through most of the recommendations on the netflix and series thread, more than to watch the Melania shit because they go on for ever.

Each to his own eh ! And bear in mind the critics are just playing to an audience, they're no more objective about films than Clarkson was about cars.


 
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Come off it…. don't start pretending there’s rules 

Actually they are laws in rugby union not rules 🙂


 
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One of those occasions when the setting and crowd is more entertaining than the art. 

The setting and the crowd or people's reaction are part of the thing, without the art (or game) there is no pull or setting, less emotion. There are those additional things because the art or game has value, mainly emotional value.


 
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Absolutely, Jameso. The emotional connection gets people there because they see value, whether objectively there is value is questionable. People find "value" in bizarre things, a good riot where they get to burn rubbish bins; a political rally where they hero worship a fascist dictoator who's just killed tens of thousands of their fellow citizens, a Grand prix in a Emirate to the glory of burning oil... .


 
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Posted by: jameso

One comment to this above was 'understanding leads to appreciation' and it sounds like that's what you're trying to do. Perhaps for some it's more about the introduction or first experience that leads to interest, and that creates the appreciation?

I think so. Despite me voicing an ambivalence to opera in the OP, I did once enjoy a performance of Carmen. It was at the Minack open air theatre in Cornwall. It was a combination of the people I was with and their reactions, stormy weather, the dramatic setting with waves crashing below and the performance that made it all quite memorable.  I'm not sure I'd think about it in the same way if my first exposure to it was an am dram show in a village hall!


 
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People find "value" in bizarre things, 

 

I suppose it's often about belonging, esp for riots and political rallies. I like the idea that a crowd gathering round a burning bin in the street gives the bin art value : ) Suddenly some of the Turner prize work makes more sense.


 
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It might just be that people like stuff you don't.  

I don't like, or at least like enought to bother watching a lot of TV entertainment.  I don't watch a lot of sport as I'd rather do than watch... the exception being some football.  I don't watch a lot of films at all.  I have a lot of other stuff to prioritise over things that don't interest me enough

I don't think about that at all.  Not an issue.  I do think about what I do like, which is a lot of music, and some comedies, and fairly dull lecture series on geology.

Or, viewpoint two, art.  I like a lot of art.... or at least there's a lot I like, but there's also a lot more I'm not bothered, excited by. I've seen a fairly large amount, like to go galleries, have been to auction predisplays etc.  My recommended approach is to go to a gallery , move past stuff that doesn't excite, and spend time with stuff that doesn't and what that is might surprise you.  Certainly I look at a lot more modern art than I do pictures of horses or bishops in hats.

But that's my taste, I'm not embarrassed by it , but I'm not forcing it on you.


 
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Maybe it's not that deep and you're just a secret hipster who dislikes anything thats mainstream or popular because it feels inauthentic to like something because loads of others like it, as opposed to discovering whatever it is independently. 

Atleast thats the case with me and I've learned to just embrace it. Anything new or popular I'm suspicious of, unless I discovered it by accident and like it and then it's got popular or mainstream after. 


 
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Each to his own eh ! And bear in mind the critics are just playing to an audience, they're no more objective about films than Clarkson was about cars.

I think that's a bit reductive.  There are examples in any type of media or entertainment that are objectively good or bad.  Criticism is by no means perfect but I think most people appreciate that a film that has 10% on Rotten Tomatoes or 4.5 on IMDB isn't going to be objectively as good as one that get 95% or 8.2


 
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I never got into Lord of the Rings or any "fantasy" type of show/movie/book despite really trying because I feel like as a nerd I should like them.

With the exception of Game of Thrones but even then I was turned off by the dragons and magic parts, much prefered the (historically innaccurate) medieval human parts.

 

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Plus, egg and spooners don’t wear armour. 

the shoulder pads arent armour, they're a weapon. watch how and where they tackle each other.


 
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Unless I'm mistaken you're talking about members of the public leaving comments/notes and I'm talking about critics, richmtb.


 
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and of course, football vs rugby. 

That ones obvious.  Rugby is a far superior game to soccer.  soccer is just playacting and cheating

Spot on. Though 'wendyball' is my preferred word for describing overpaid cheats falling over like they had been shot because a breeze blew their hair gel out of alignment.

 


 
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A few examples: The Beatles; Shakespeare; Bowie. There are many more.  More widely: Opera; Ballet; Musical theatre.

Beatles - massively over rated cover band. Shakespeare - something you're forced to learn in school that has zero bearing on adult live. Bowie - outside of his famous songs, absolutely rubbish.

Like what you like and don't be ashamed of it. I'm off to a model railway show this weekend.


 
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in 10 years time people may look back with fondness at the Melania film and think " That was a cultural high point for the age "

Now we're just being silly.


 
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Beatles - massively over rated cover band. Shakespeare - something you're forced to learn in school that has zero bearing on adult live. Bowie - outside of his famous songs, absolutely rubbish.

Obvious troll is obvious.


 
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Nothing wrong with liking what you like. More interesting than being a generic NPC.


 
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Posted by: politecameraaction

Is this one of these things you've convinced yourself of but doesn't actually exist in reality?

To be fair, I don't exactly go out of my way to seek out more sport than I'm already oversaturated with.

 

Posted by: jameso

Exactly .. It's almost as if the percentage of coverage is based on popularity? : ) 

Is this not circular to a degree?  Ie things are popular, at least in part, because of the coverage?  If this weren't the case then Coca-Cola and MacDonald's wouldn't spend billions on advertising.


 
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Is this not circular to a degree?

Yes I'd say so. The current cultural familiarity mainstream part feeds the likelihood of experience and emotion (engagement). And most people will tend towards the mainstream and cultural norms won't they, it's how we're programmed. 

If it's a chicken or egg Q I think there's ease of access, tribalisms, aspirations etc all feeding into it and saying football is popular because it has value to more people than other games or sports, it did long before TV and sport news sections. The media boost it now in a marketing / advertising way as you say, though I think the sport always had high relative value. 


 
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Unless I'm mistaken you're talking about members of the public leaving comments/notes and I'm talking about critics, richmtb.

Rotten Tomatoes is an aggregation of critics reviews.  IMDB is user reviews.  The point still stands, when you aggregate a large number of reviews you tend to get a fairly clear measure of what is objectively good and bad, ergo criticism often is objective.


 
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Spot on. Though 'wendyball' is my preferred word for describing overpaid cheats falling over like they had been shot because a breeze blew their hair gel out of alignment.

 

People who use the word "wendyball" pictured yesterday

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Posted by: robertajobb

Spot on. Though 'wendyball' is my preferred word for describing overpaid cheats falling over like they had been shot because a breeze blew their hair gel out of alignment.

 

People who use the word "wendyball" pictured yesterday

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Cavalry officers?

 


 
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I feel like 'universally' in the thread title is possibly not correct?

Opera is generally accepted to be High Art, but I have never, in my 46 years on this planet, met anyone who or acclaims it, or likes it.  It's acclaimed by those who Know About These Things, and gets a vast subsidies as a result, but it's not univerally acclaimed.

Unlike, say, the latest Latex Man Saves The World With His Magic Fireball superhero movie, which does nothing for me but I know loads of people that will be down the Odeon to watch it, and the box office takings suggest that it is acclaimed by a fairly high proportion of the public. If not critically acclaimed.


 
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There used to be a great piss taking photo blog online called "look at my f***ing red trousers!


 
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Posted by: blokeuptheroad

There used to be a great piss taking photo blog online called "look at my f***ing red trousers!

I'd imagine Guards and Cavalry officer were heavily represented on such a thing. 

 


 
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Posted by: winston

Well I've gathered my berries, tended my crops and milked my cow.... so yeah I've got a bit of free time to think about culture - what do you spend your free time thinking about?

 

Riding my bike or planning trips to places I would like to ride my bike.

 


 
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Posted by: doris5000

I feel like 'universally' in the thread title is possibly not correct?

Like Opera

Agreed. Opera was more of an afterthought. I think it does apply to the examples in my preceding sentence in the OP.


 
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I'd imagine Guards and Cavalry officer were heavily represented on such a thing. 

 

Oh yes!!


 
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Posted by: blokeuptheroad

There used to be a great piss taking photo blog online called "look at my f***ing red trousers!

Popular with Dutch men of a certain age 🤣


 
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Posted by: blokeuptheroad

There used to be a great piss taking photo blog online called "look at my f***ing red trousers!

The blog is still floating about the abyss of cyberspace.

To your point, I don't feel shame. Maybe sometimes a little perplexed as to why I may not like something 'popular' enjoyed by the masses. But its fleeting, plenty of things I do like and love for me to enjoy. 


 
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Posted by: blokeuptheroad

There used to be a great piss taking photo blog online called "look at my f***ing red trousers!

The blog is still floating about the abyss of cyberspace.

Brilliant! Good search skills. I'd forgotten that the blog host was "Monsieur Henri de Pantalon-Rouge"! 😆 

 


 
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I'd imagine Guards and Cavalry officer were heavily represented on such a thing. 

I understand they discovered it, and then did their best to get included, which was the death knell of the site as far as I can remember. Was there not also a "Kim-Il-Yong points at things" and a "Chris Froome stares at his stem", or did I hallucinate them?


 
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I understand they discovered it, and then did their best to get included,

#Standardofficerbehaviour. 


 
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Cavalry officers?

Ruddy good blokes.


 
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Is that a young Boris Johnson in the background of the photo of the red trouser types? Probably, right kind of crowd. 

Was there not also a "Kim-Il-Yong points at things" and a "Chris Froome stares at his stem", or did I hallucinate them?

There was. And there was the excellent BigRingRiding tumblr, and HBCutTheCourseIn1990 blog. Bike culture high points IMH critical O.

 

 


 
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I'd imagine Guards and Cavalry officer were heavily represented on such a thing. 

I understand they discovered it, and then did their best to get included, which was the death knell of the site as far as I can remember. Was there not also a "Kim-Il-Yong points at things" and a "Chris Froome stares at his stem", or did I hallucinate them?

 


 
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that taking the global population as a whole (all 9 billion or whatever it is now) there is no such thing as "universally acclaimed culture". Good thing too in my opinion.


 
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We all have our likes and dislikes, nothing to be ashamed of though 🤷‍♂️


 
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I've read on here a number of "don't like ballet, classical music and opera" comments.

Neither do I, really, on TV.  But at a live performance they can be stunning.  Many years ago Mrs BigJohn and I did a bit of am dram and the sound of a full orchestra when you're on stage and they're banging out the (for example) overture to Oklahoma or Guys and Dolls is something you never forget.


 
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We all have our likes and dislikes, nothing to be ashamed of though 🤷‍♂️

Agreed and I'm not. A poor choice of words on my behalf which I tried to qualify in the OP.  It's more about FOMO really. Musing on why  "Everybody seems to agree this thing is exceptional, why can't I see it". Of course the simple answer is just "because we all like different things" which is of course true. I was trying (badly) to say that whilst disagreement on most popular culture is common, there are a few national treasures which it seems are beyond that. 

 


 
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So your vision is the only one of value?  Ok. The rest of us are maybe less perfect. 

Wow! Talk about missing the point. What I got from TJ was that he loves creating his own "inner visual world" whilst reading, and that he gains pleasure from doing so,  immersed and happy with that ability. I got the feeling from his explanation that he finds films would hinder his enjoyment, and as such the medium becomes irrelevant in terms of his enjoyment of storytelling. I don't think he was being critical, he was trying to get across how important his imagination is to his love of reading. 

There are only a very few films where I have read a book before seeing the film and not been at least a little bit disappointed by the filmmaker's interpretation or depiction of characters, places or even worlds, so I absolutely get where he is coming from. 


 
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Going back to the films create the images for you part.

Thing is, films provide the images, the viewer has to provide much of the underlying motivations, emotions, back-story, socio-political context etc., as there simply isn't the screen time to elaborate on all that; a novel can be explicit about that (though it may not), but doesn't provide detailed imagery.  Both leave stuff to be interpolated but it tends to be different stuff.

@tj - this point has probably been made, but have you tried so-called "arty" films, you know the pretentious high-brow type?  Generally my favourite genre 'cos I am a bit like that (and no I don't like opera either).  But then, given the choice of having to read a Dan Brown novel or having to sit through the film of one, I would choose the film, as I can't abide bad writing, even if it is telling a good story (I read half a chapter of "The Da Vinci Code" and thought "this is tripe" and stopped).


 
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Wow! Talk about missing the point. What I got from TJ was that he loves creating his own "inner visual world" whilst reading, and that he gains pleasure from doing so,  immersed and happy with that ability. I got the feeling from his explanation that he finds films would hinder his enjoyment, and as such the medium becomes irrelevant in terms of his enjoyment of storytelling. I don't think he was being critical, he was trying to get across how important his imagination is to his love of reading.

First point - reading a book and watching a film are two separate activities. A person can do (and enjoy) both (not at the same time, obvs.)

Second point - you can enjoy a book and enjoy a film of the same book.

Third point - a film director can create a vision from a book that is different from the one you might have thought of from the book. You can enjoy that vision more, or less, but you can get benefit from the different vision. Unless, of course, you consider that your vision is the only one of value.

Fourth point - Star Wars, Pulp Fiction, The Matrix, The Big Lebowski - how do you get a "vision" of these?

Fifth point - there is no fifth point. Yet.


 
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when you aggregate a large number of reviews you tend to get a fairly clear measure of what is objectively good and bad,

Yet things like Star Wars get good reviews while the whole saga is farcical bollocks by any objective measure such how fast you can travel through space, how much use wings are in a vacuum, how you could limit the length of a lazer sword etc. It's laughable.

I can still cope with some modern films because they aren't ruined with CGI and nonsense plot but I can't think of a Hollywood production I've got through more than 15 minutes of since errr, I can't think of the last Hollywood production I watched to the end so can't give a date.

I quite like reading, but again there are whole sections of the library I don't bother with - crime, thriller, action etc. has no interest for me, But Madame Edukator loves it, we never ever read the same books. If I like it I know she won't and visa versa. I like books in which no-one or only very old people die. I don't contribute to the "what are you reading" thread on here, none of the stuff other people post inspires and I'm sure they'd have no interest in what I read.

The Beatles? I play guitar, the very early period can be dismissed as cover versions but the later albums are inventive and very clever.

Anyhow each to his own. 


 
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Re 'liking what we like' .. w/o meaning to focus on just books, there isn't enough time in life to read all the books so we have to filter things, but still, try something and put it down if it's no good, move on. I love phone box book stores. I ride through Hay on Wye on many of my tours in Wales and I like picking something up there. Usually chosen by size and ability to read it in 4-7 days more than by topic. I've been suprised by how good (enjoyable, thought-provoking, memorable etc) a book about a random subject can be, novel or non-fiction. Started to think that my own ideas or internal rambling about what I like and don't like is one of my hindrances. It's a bias based on my past and my limited experiences so far, that's all. Try it, you never know .. 


 
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Yet things like Star Wars get good reviews while the whole saga is farcical bollocks by any objective measure such how fast you can travel through space, how much use wings are in a vacuum, how you could limit the length of a lazer sword etc.

You're confusing a movie review with a physics feasibility study.


 
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Yet things like Star Wars get good reviews while the whole saga is farcical bollocks by any objective measure such how fast you can travel through space, how much use wings are in a vacuum, how you could limit the length of a lazer sword etc. It's laughable.

It's a kid's movie. I loved it when I was 10. Andor is pretty decent though.


 
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I completely agree that each to their own and different people will enjoy different things. THe bit that gets me is that some forms of entertainment are classed as culture and as such subsidised by taxpayers allegedly so more people can afford to participate and most arent. Who is the arbiter of what should be subsisidesed, and fundamentally why should anyone’s entertainment be subsidised by taxpayers?


 
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Starwars is an odd one with me. 

Half of me hates the total inconsistencies with the science/physics of it. I'd almost be happier with ignoring things making limited sense  if they would at least be consistent about it.

And the other half of me is willing to accept it as a bit of fun and enjoy the story. As much as the prequel trilogy gets hate, it contains enough interesting plots and facts that help to explain the original trilogy.


 
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oh there are plenty that i could list but definitely Shakespeare being a big one.

 

i can appreciate people who love his works and theatre and film productions of his plays etc but i just don't get it myself (maybe my own stupidity a reason perhaps?). i just don't connect with any of it tbh. i even bought his complete works on kindle for the grand sum of 99p but just cannot read more than the first paragraph (hangs head in shame). 

 

although i have visited stratford upon avon twice and enjoyed seeing where he was born and passing the royal shalketc.

 

also any team sports i have no interest in.   


 
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I've read on here a number of "don't like ballet, classical music and opera" comments.

Neither do I, really, on TV.  But at a live performance they can be stunning.  Many years ago Mrs BigJohn and I did a bit of am dram and the sound of a full orchestra when you're on stage and they're banging out the (for example) overture to Oklahoma or Guys and Dolls is something you never forget.

A few Christmases ago Ms.RM wanted to go and see The Nutcracker. I got us tickets and off we went. 

Now ballet is not my jam, but I've always held the opinion that they're supremely talented & commited individuals. 

That opinion was further reinforced after a that performance, the physicality of the performers was breathtaking.

Holding a static pose which was essentially a stress position while observing the main performers, then immediately leaping into performance, the strength, conditioning and discipline required was incredible. 

I also found myself absolutely glued to musicians, specifically the Harpist. Were do you even begin to learn that thing and then make coherent ethereal sound?

So while Ballet is still not my jam, I can appreciate it as an art form, and try to imagine the levels of commitment and passion to get to a level where people pay to see you, regardless if they genuinely like what you do or are pretending. 

 


 
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although i have visited stratford upon avon twice and enjoyed seeing where he was born and passing the royal shalketc.

Fun fact - According to the CIA it was after a visit to Stratford on Avon 1970s that young Osama Bin Laden developed his hatred of the west. And yet to this day - no Blue Plaque.

But as you've been there twice we'll be keeping an eye on you from now on.


 
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i even bought his complete works on kindle for the grand sum of 99p but just cannot read more than the first paragraph (hangs head in shame). 

There's no shame in that. It's not exactly accessible, and plays rarely benefit from being read. I only started to "get" Shakespeare when I tried to act it. Even then it takes a lot of work, going through it line by line.

However once you do that that, you realise just how many phrases, that are still in common usage, have their roots in Shakespeare, and the themes that he covers are still relevant today.


 
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