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These things are all relative, I can see where bikebuoy and sofaboy are coming from in that even at higher incomes you can live beyond your means (this was the question, yes?) however those people could downsize and relieve the burden. Well, in Sheffield anyway, I have no idea how far out of London you would have to go to do that. Probably Sheffield.
Personally we're doing alright though there have been a few tight months, a year and a half in fact (how time flies when you're having fun) thanks to unplanned expenditures (car maintenance, funeral costs - the usual). Not beyond our means by any stretch and doing rather well but there is a clock ticking on my job and right now I have no idea what I'll be doing in 6 months never mind 6 years.
bikebouy - what you actually mean is you are struggling to have a comfortable middle class lifestyle in London on £100 000 a year. Its utter nonsense to suggest you are struggling in absolute terms.
Do you live in a crowded insecure rented flat? Or have you bought a house? Own a car or get the bus to work? Ever had to use a food bank?
Seriously dude - you need a large dose of reality and to get a clue what the reality is for most folk. You are among the richest few % of the countries population. that is a simple fact.
5k a month net is a good income.
However if you live in the South East/London commuter belt then it won’t go very far.
Yeah, we know. We get all the details from BB every time there is a money thread. TJ disagrees. Edit: As illustrated above.
Out of curiosity, how many are arranging the finances in preparation for Brexit?
I logged a shit tonne of hours on various Fallout games before the kids came along, does that count?
By decent I mean comfortable home, holidays, good food. What any reasonable person would expect a working family to be able to afford.
I think a big part of the problem is that the modern housing market means that, for those that didn't get on the ladder early enough, the "comfortable home" part of that equation accounts for more than two-thirds of their take-home pay.
We're OK. I have a pretty good job, but Mrs Lunge is now earning just under half what she was a year ago. Thankfully, we have a small mortgage, 1 old car that's cheap to run and relatively cheap habits. I do have a bit of a spending habit but am really trying to chop it down at the moment, doing more running (cheap) than cycling (expensive) is certainly helping that.
I could/should save more and I could/should be more careful.
a comfortable middle class lifestyle
That's because a £100k a year isn't "middle class" anymore if you have to spend nearly half of it just to pay for your house, before you even heat it or feed yourself.
Do you live in a crowded insecure rented flat? Or have you bought a house? Own a car or get the bus to work? Ever had to use a food bank?
The things you are highlighting are things people living in poverty have to do.
IMO Bikebuoy is a typical example of the modern UK, you can be an established professional person, with apparently a good income and have way less disposable income than someone in a similar position did 30 years ago.
How any family can have a decent standard of living on less than £3k a month net, is beyond me. By decent I mean comfortable home, holidays, good food. What any reasonable person would expect a working family to be able to afford.
This is the reality for vast numbers of people in our country. those things are so far beyond them that they will always remain a dream.
Out of curiosity, how many are arranging the finances in preparation for Brexit?
Only thing I've done so far is make sure that we've bought into some "excluding UK" funds under my daughter's JISA to spread the risk to her savings a bit.
Not honestly sure what else we should do? Don't really hold any investments beyond the trust funds for the kids. And we're fortunate in that I don't think our job security is likely to be impacted.
£100 000 a year not "comfortable middle class" Utter nonsense. It puts you firmly in the richest part of our society
If living in a insecure rented flat is poverty then half the country are in poverty. If not owning a car...........
Some of you really have no idea what the reality is for huge amounts of people in this country
Wasting your breath TJ. It's like trying to explain the NHS to a Tory.
That’s because a £100k a year isn’t “middle class” anymore if you have to spend nearly half of it just to pay for your house, before you even heat it or feed yourself.
So £50k a year with no housing costs isn't enough to live as "middle class"?
Delusional.
Used to be absolutely useless with money. I earned a lot and spent even more. Got into my early 30's, carried on earning good money but equally spending an awful lot more than I was earning. The vast majority of what I was spending the money on was junk, regular expensive trips away with pals, boozy nights out etc.
Got divorced about 10 years ago, that was expensive. Not just the legal side of it, but the first 18 months I was providing house / food / bills etc for my family. I also went off the rails a lot, got in even more debt. Took me a while to sort my self out.
I re-married the ex who divorced me, one of our problems in the marriage was my spending and my living beyond our means. Whilst I still spend, everything is saved for cash first. All loans, overdrafts cleared. Expensive cars finance ended and now I drive a paid for Citroen Berlingo. It can be a bit frustrating but I realise we are very lucky to be in the position we are. Wife deals with money, I'm given "pocket money", once its gone its gone.
I do regret my lifestyle through my late 20s and 30s though. If I'd have saved I wouldn't need to still be working in the field I do. I really detest my line of work - but I'm now trapped in it due to my financial mistakes I made when younger.
I really really want a new Bird hardtail, but having to stop myself!
Regarding the fridge packing in etc, I'm sure we pay about £10 a month to cover all of our household appliances. Our fridge freezer packed in about a month ago, replacement parts fitted and back up and running within a couple of weeks - same as washing machine before that. Appreciate not everyone has the £10 per month for the appliance insurance, but ours covers quite a few expensive to replace items, including the boiler.
Try this calculator to see how you compare to the population
https://www.ifs.org.uk/tools_and_resources/where_do_you_fit_in
Or have a look at this graph
Interesting to see the standard pissing contest has been inverted into a "I'm considerably poorer than yow" 🙄
@idiotdogbrain makes an excellent point: the question was about living beyond your means. Anyone can do that, regardless of their income.
Not being able to talk openly about that because it offends people on a lower income is a big part of the problem.
The mortgage thing also assumes you'd actually get given one..
As an example, let's create a fictitious couple: both in decent jobs, one earning £45K gross, one £30K. Been gifted, or saved, £25K for a deposit. Two kids, so 3-bed house needed. At current mortgage allowances, 3x the largest salary plus the smaller, plus the deposit is £190K. Crappy 3-beds in less-than-desirable areas near me start at £240K, so they've no chance to buy a family home. On a combined salary of £75K! So, they're stuck renting, or having to move and start again..
Anyone can do that, regardless of their income.
No one is saying they can't do that. Pointing out the ridiculousness of saying £100k a year isn't a lot is not the same thing at all.
At the moment as I'm technically unemployed then I'm living beyond my means in that my outgoings are definitely more than my income. BUT, the previous ten years were good in that my net salary was nearly double what I spent - I wasn't profligate in my spending but equally I wasn't tight fisted, just that I bought what I needed rather than what I wanted (mostly).
At both the latest redundancy (the whole office closed down) and the previous one I went through my/our baseline costs. We've no debts other than small short term amounts on credit cards which get paid off at the end of the month. In roughly descending order: Council Tax; heating oil; house insurance; car insurance; utilities (we are on private water and sewage so the only cost is £50 every other year to empty the septic tank). That lot comes to around £4K pa. Food for us and fuel for the car, another £4k-£5k. Everything above that is discretionary spending/disposable income.
The OP does really say but the thread shows that amongst those living beyond their means they are split to those who have "chose" to (they know/knew that that are/were living beyond their means and those who's circumstances have dictated that they are living beyond their means. However I agree completely with TJ - those with good salaries (higher paid tax payers) should be more sensitive and realistic. No matter where you are in the UK the salaries mentioned could give you a better standard of living and they give you the financial power to make the choice of where you live and hence whether you are living beyond your means.
No one is saying they can’t do that. Pointing out the ridiculousness of saying £100k a year isn’t a lot is not the same thing at all.
£100k a year should make you "rich". But it doesn't.
Generally speaking it would mean a professional qualification and a fairly senior position with a lot of responsibility.
30 years ago the rewards of a similar position would of been far more than they are today.
That's how ****ed up the UK is.
Gobchul makes good points - 5k takehome in Greater Manchester would be a very generous income but I would imagine that most people who earn that would spend it on a house in somewhere pricy in the Cheshire commuter belt with all the residual costs so the lifestyle is the same.
the big question is whether the debt you have is risky in the event of the loss of income - if you can handle it then the decisions are yours but if not it's IVA time if you're not careful and despite what the daily wail would have you believe, an IVA isn't an easy option.
As I said, it's a cultural thing. Expectations have changed.
Two kids, so 3-bed house needed
I shared a bedroom with my brother and thought nothing of it. Going back a generation, my parents dated for six years before my dad had a job that paid enough to support a family, and only then did they get married. That's what you did in those days. The difficulty that today's younger generation have is that those changed expectations put pressure on. If they chose to live as my generation did, I think they'd be looked down on by their peers.
those with good salaries (higher paid tax payers) should be more sensitive and realistic.
Why? It's all relative: what might seem a lot to one person may simply be adequate to someone else. It depends entirely on individual circumstances: if the higher-earner's outgoings are proportionately higher then, to them, it may seem like they are less affluent than to someone looking at it from the outside.
If you've managed to rack up chunky debt - for whatever reason - then you don't have much choice about paying it back and that can take up a lot of your monthly pay. I had a business that never quite paid me a decent wage but always seemed to be just about to - whilst also having a 'flexible' interest only mortgage with savings account. Obviously this means that I was also 'just about to' start properly paying into the savings account. It also meant that I racked up debt in the form of loans to fix falling down house issues (tried and failed to sell it) and also some financial fall out from a rubbish relationship...
A few years of a part time proper job augmenting own business and now consultancy work and I'm finally catching up with paying into the savings account which means that whilst I'm earning the best money I have for a considerable time, I'm basically squirrelling it away into the vast house shaped hole rather than spending it.
It's weird as I would never have thought of myself as the living beyond my means type but on paper I have done and am just about getting it under control now. I worry about Brexit a lot and am trying to get savings up so that the outstanding mortgage is as small as possible by next March. I don't really know how it will impact on what I do and it's already had an impact on my other half's business so the best plan seems to be to have as few commitments as possible.
Try this calculator to see how you compare to the population
I got the following message;
In conclusion, Your income is so high that you lie beyond the far right hand side of the chart
I know I am rich and would describe myself as so but I still live a pretty simple life and don't have loads of spare money at the end of each month so see why others in same position may not feel rich. All about perspective...
The 'decent' jobs thing is interesting, it all depends on a given value of 'decent' doesn't it? Working your arse off 5 or 6 days a week for lots of money so you can afford to pay for stuff you've already ticked-on but don't have the time to appreciate isn't a (mentally) healthy way to be on.
£100k a year should make you “rich”. But it doesn’t.
Only if you don't let it make you "rich". Dress it up all you want citing expenses for this and outgoings for that, but all you are doing is making excuses for bad money management and spending choices. I don't make £100k a year, I still make a lot though and I know how well off I am. Maybe the difference is that I grew up in poverty and all of my extended family and friends were also poor. It wasn't until my 30's before I started to make a good salary so I know what both situations are like. If you think you need to live in a house with a separate room for each child, multiple cars on HP/PCP and two annual holidays just to be classed as a decent life then you are either stupid or trolling.
I'm constantly amazed by what my friends (and also my wife tbh) see as essentials for life. Need a new bike? pop it on finance, got a car that's done over 100,000 miles? get one on PCP. Shopping in Waitrose rather than Aldi 'cause the food looks nicer... Having been to the edge of bankruptcy its not something I'd wish on anyone, and even now am still paying the price. And the interest...
The biggest issue seems to be comparing ourselves to others and the expectations it brings. Just because bob has a shiny new car and a skiing holiday every year doesn't mean we need, or can afford it. For all you know he's up to his eyeballs in debt (or dealing smack)
I know we are rich on a household income a bit over half of Bikebouys. We live in a small flat tho never having been able to afford a house within cycling distance of work. We don't own a car and we don't buy stuff on credit. According to that calculator we are richer than 70% of the population
If you think you need to live in a house with a separate room for each child, multiple cars on HP/PCP and two annual holidays just to be classed as a decent life then you are either stupid or trolling.
Conversely, that sounds like trolling to me.
If someone wants to live like that, why be so judgmental? It doesn't affect you in any way.
If someone wants to live like that, why be so judgmental? It doesn’t affect you in any way.
Doesn't bother me what they live like, each to their own. Just don't pretend you aren't well off at the same time.
If you think you need to live in a house with a separate room for each child, multiple cars on HP/PCP and two annual holidays just to be classed as a decent life then you are either stupid or trolling.
Just to be clear, I am not pleading poverty.
We don't have kids and I am on a very good wage. Had a very busy 12 months and with the Mrs business, earned a substantial amount of money. I do make a lot of sacrifices for work, away from home a lot but I've done it for 30 years and can't imagine anything different.
We did take a bigger mortgage a couple of years ago to buy the business but are currently hitting it as hard as we can before the interest rates go back up, so we are not saving anything, all going on the mortgage. The plan is to be mortgage free in about 5 years, then I will throttle back at work and go self employed, picking and choosing projects.
I don't spend much money on cars, we do have a boat, which is probably my biggest "luxury" expense. However, it only cost what some spend on their 3 or 4 bikes.
I don't feel "rich" as any spare cash goes against our, still substantial, debt. That was our choice though and is a means to an end.
The point I was making earlier, is that if you haven't had to pay SE property prices then it's quite hard to appreciate how difficult it is.
I have lived in the SE and worked in London. At the time I was earning about £70k a year and I was far from "rich". By the time you have paid the mortgage and your train ticket, then there is not a lot left. We had a pleasant 3 bed bungalow but it was hardly extravagant and still more than a hour door to door commute to work.
I knew some who were on less than that and with an income of £50k a year, living in a similar house and with kids, they would only be 2 or 3 months away from losing their house if anything happened to their jobs.
I suppose there is a big difference between living beyond your means and not earning enough to make ends meet.
Anyone with disposable income at the end of the month is probably doing quite well, once paid for house, food, bills etc. Those essentials that we need. Not private schools, car finance etc.
The issue is that it is so easy get credit along with all the latest gadgets being advertised constantly and being told we need them, social media just shows us the good bits of peoples lives, so we automatically think everyone must have these amazing things so we need them. It is a massive cultural and economic problem which is not sustainable.
if you haven’t had to pay SE property prices then it’s quite hard to appreciate how difficult it is
Just move then. It's that easy. Get another job. Both of you. 😉
In all seriousness, todays society has been engineered to make downsizing (ie. financial prudence) the less desirable option. I see it all the time in people (friends and family) that are either paying for their life through finance or want to move upwards with no financial means of doing so. Society has pressurised people into thinking they need to fly to some sandy shithole every couple of months, have a "cracking deal" on an over priced and over specced car on the never ever or upgrade to the latest and greatest niche fads and standards every year. Everyone is at it, and I'm by no means sitting by looking on smugly as I feel the draw of shiny baubles and wanting to go places as much as the next person.
The issue is that it is so easy get credit
Yup. Paypal credit is a very dangerous thing, one click and oops! Suddenly my monthly allowance for the next year has been wiped out.
How any family can have a decent standard of living on less than £3k a month net, is beyond me. By decent I mean comfortable home, holidays, good food. What any reasonable person would expect a working family to be able to afford.
I missed that one. Holidays and "good" food are both luxuries, of course you can make decent food with considerably less outlay if you plan properly and buy sensibly. It also depends where in the country you are, around here (Largs) you could get [url= https://www.zoopla.co.uk/for-sale/details/49467181?search_identifier=f986cd28c44b17437291348eb4273221 ]an upper 3 bed quarter villa[/url] (cottage flat?) for 80k.Of course all that is dependent on being approved for a mortgage but to be honest if you can afford to rent you should generally be able to afford a mortgage.
Holidays and “good” food are both luxuries
A holiday is pretty much essential for general well being. Depending on how much you spend on it determines if it's a luxury or not.
Good food is not a luxury.
to be honest if you can afford to rent you should generally be able to afford a mortgage.
Where do you get your deposit from? Why do you think so many people rent? They can't be bothered to fill in the mortgage application?
if you haven’t had to pay SE property prices then it’s quite hard to appreciate how difficult it is
And you can get all that money back at the other end by selling up and retiring elsewhere with a big pot of cash. Swings and roundabouts. In order for me to come out at the other end with similar I would still have to make the same sort of payments only into savings instead of a mortgage.
know we are rich on a household income a bit over half of Bikebouys.
Another assumption you are making on my income, you are good at these tj.
You do not know how much I take home. So, whilst you are happy to divulge your financial status ... I am not. But that doesn’t give you the right to make uninformed opinions about me.
Why not stick to the facts.
I shouldn’t have to explain again the reasoned argument I made, it gets boring and boorish explaining the same topic over and over again.
The basis for the argument (again, like you haven’t heard it too many times already) is:
Mort - £2k thereabouts
Car - £800
So, for the mathematicians that’s £2800 so far.. ok?
Food - £400
Schools - £1000
Sodding about being a human £800
And the total is ?? What d’ya reckon??
£5k
Boom!
No business of yours what bloody %entile they sit in, what social demographic they sit or aspire too.
Those figures are realistic, sorry if you don’t get the concept. Maybe read a book on it.
Outside the basics to live I think the biggest discretionary spend is holidays. I am constantly amazed how high a percentage of net annual salary people will spend on an ephemeral experience (often on credit) whilst foregoing other enduring and enriching uses for the money.
You think being able to spunk £800 a month on a car, £1000 on schools and £800 dicking about doesn't make you well off?
I missed that one. Holidays and “good” food are both luxuries, of course you can make decent food with considerably less outlay if you plan properly and buy sensibly. It also depends where in the country you are, around here (Largs) you could get an upper 3 bed quarter villa (cottage flat?) for 80k.Of course all that is dependent on being approved for a mortgage but to be honest if you can afford to rent you should generally be able to afford a mortgage.
The problem is that £80k flat in outer London will cost £350k. So a couple earning a good combined wage of £70k will still struggle to afford it
I did not expect this kind of reaction!
All very interesting view points
That’s thier choice No?
And that’s not always One income earner either, could be two/twenty.
Could be two cars for the family, could be one, could be twenty ..
Schools, could be trips, could be private, could be travel to/from, could be a new pair of socks every day..
Mortgage is pretty accurate though, renting similar money.
Plenty of people commute, in/out, haven’t factored in anything for that either.
So, top percentile or not it makes no difference. Reality is that it costs similar to My figures here to live/work in Town, and colleagues often moan about the cost of living here.
You lot get confused with trying to fit people into demographics when in reality it’s irrelevant.
And as for trying to use the “you’re richer than I” argument it’s pointless, because there is no answer. People simply have to earn enough to live in Town and that figure is realistic... like it or not.
£1000 for schools but not rich, hilarious.
You know most people (even rich ones) send their kids to school for free...
Bikeboyuy - you said £5000 a month post tax income - that equates to around £100 000 a year pre tax. The figures you provided show a lifestyle that clearly places you amongst the richest % of our country. simple facts. £2000 mortgage - thats about the national average income right there. £800 a month on cars - huge sums to most folk. Now try doing the sums on an ordinary public servants wages. You know nurse, teacher, policeman. How do they afford to live in london? they rent, they use public transport, they scrape by
'Ere why aren't you all at work?! Get back to it you arse draggers.
So, top percentile or not it makes no difference. Reality is that it costs similar to My figures here to live/work in Town, and colleagues often moan about the cost of living here.
Lol, good one!
Got anymore?
There is of course the problem that someone living close to the 'edge' even with a massive wage in a relative context, still needs to find £20,000 to move house. Moving doesn't come for free.
Try this calculator to see how you compare to the population
That calculator only really considers income. It doesn't consider outgoings.
It's quite possible to have an income that places you on the right hand side of that graph, but still have outgoings that mean you are "living beyond your means".
That doesn't deny the fact that there are many people who are much worse off. And it doesn't imply you are remotely close to poverty. It just means that, for whatever reasons, you are spending more than you earn.
Which was the point of the OP.
The problem is that £80k flat in outer London will cost £350k.
One of the many reasons I don't live in London! Prices there are insane compared to what we pay in the north east. And even more so compared to what my mates are paying in rural Scotland.
Was. Just finished mortgage, but costs and stuff mounted, but have just managed to pay any other debts off as an injury compensation eventually came through (injury lead to lots more daily costs, fuel etc). Medical costs for family (stuff not covered on NHS) added to this.
Finally debt free, so just utilities/insurance to pay now. I will need a new car at some point as it's nearly 17 years old. Time to start saving like crazy for a new kitchen, car, then a bike.
Late 40's so not bad. Sister will have a huge mortgage until she retires - nice house, but a large 4 bed detached is a bit much for 2 people. Our modest 3 bedroom semi will do for 4 of us, 4 cats and 9 bikes.
Well there you go again tj, same old “you are in the top %entile” stance again.
Whether you like what you read or not, those figures are pretty accurate.
I’ll come back here to see how many “but hey, you’re avvin a larf” comments I get.
Its entertaining, mildly amusing.
That’s thier choice No?
Yes it's their choice. No one is saying they can't make those choices. But being able to do so clearly means that what you wrote below is bollocks.
£5k nett isn’t a lot to live on if you reside in London
But you know that and are just trolling.
taking advantage of available credit - no problem with folks doing that, can be a better way of dealing with large outlays, can spread costs over a longer period of time, can cover up unexpected or temporary shortfalls.
Doing the above, taking full use of your new car, last years holiday etc, and then moaning that you have a credit card bill every month like its an unfair tax on your income* - I hate these people. You spent it, you pay for it.
*Yes Tobias and Mikayla, thats how I saved for my upcoming holiday, bought a 2.5k bike and a 9k car cash; by not paying off last years ever month.
One of the many reasons I don’t live in London! Prices there are insane compared to what we pay in the north east. And even more so compared to what my mates are paying in rural Scotland.
but local wages reflect the local house prices (to a certain extent) whats a farm hand earn locally? or the part timer in the local shop? can they afford to buy?
i bet they couldn’t afford to live in the nicer parts of Aberdeen where all the oil money is?
i live in one of those 300k flats in outer london but the mortgage is way cheaper than renting and covered with a day and a half of freelance a month. still don't have eat out several times a week or shout at alexa to bring me stuff all the time.
had to put down over 35% deposit being self employed, how did i manage that? by living within my means...
Not 100% sure if Bikebuoy is trolling or not really.
Mid you seriously think that £1000/month to send your kids to school and £800/month on a car (both purely by choice) are “normal expenses” then you are properly deluded.
Thats basically all my take home pay, right there.
and I managed to pay off my mortgage and raise a family and live pretty well with no debt.
Trolling or deluded.
£2000 mortgage – thats about the national average income right there.
Yep. The median disposable household income is £27,300 so about £2275 a month.
But unfortunately the average property value in England is now £242,286 and in London specifically it is £485,830!
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/uk-house-price-index-for-january-2018
Even with the current low lending rates that means a hefty mortgage for many people.
A slightly different take on TJ and Bikebuoys numbers.
£50k per annum. A rich person according to some. Working in London, living in a typical family home.
Gives you about £3k per month.
£1750 mortgage
£150 council tax
£150 heat and light
£400 train ticket
£600 food (£20 per day for a family of 4)
£100 car (probably underestimated)
Already spent £3150 per month. Not many luxuries there either.
don't forget that in London fish and chips are £12-£15 and considered a treat.
🙂
A slightly different take on TJ and Bikebuoys numbers.
£50k per annum. A rich person according to some. Working in London, living in a typical family home.
Gives you about £3k per month.
£1750 mortgage
£150 council tax
£150 heat and light
£400 train ticket
£600 food (£20 per day for a family of 4)
£100 car (probably underestimated)
Already spent £3150 per month. Not many luxuries there either.
Dont need a car in London
Dont need a car in London
That's not London.
That's based on living outside of the M25, hence the £400 for a train ticket.
Besides, £100 a month is not a lot. Wouldn't be much of a car.
but local wages reflect the local house prices (to a certain extent) whats a farm hand earn locally? or the part timer in the local shop? can they afford to buy?
You are assuming a lot there. Particularly about the local skills and jobs.
Good mate is fairly high-up management in an agronomy company operating internationally. Lives in rural Perthshire in a large 5-bed detached house with a couple of acres of land that cost him not much more than your £300k Outer London flat.
i bet they couldn’t afford to live in the nicer parts of Aberdeen where all the oil money is?
I lived in Aberdeen for a few years. You are correct, £300k there doesn't go nearly as far there, but it does buy you a lot more than a flat:
http://www.aberdeenprimeproperty.com/property/6-Weaver-Terrace-AB24-4SD-zqosv7x.aspx
Even more so if you don't restrict yourself to the city centre:
http://www.aberdeenprimeproperty.com/property/The-Stables-Craiglarach-AB34-5ES-fqpvbhr.asp
So according to bikebouy no public servants bar those at the very top of the pile ie consultants, head teachers, chief constables can live in London. Right.
Bikeboyuy whatever way you want to try to cut it those sums show you are amongst the richest in our society. Levels of spending almost no public servants can acheive.
gobuchal - try housing association rental at 1/3 of that.
A typical family home in london is an overcrowded rented flat.
gobuchal – try housing association rental at 1/3 of that.
Could be. If you can get one. Besides, surely if you are wealthy then you shouldn't need to do that and could buy your own home?
A typical family home in london is an overcrowded rented flat.
I am not talking about living in London.
if you haven’t had to pay SE property prices then it’s quite hard to appreciate how difficult it is.
@$&*$$*@$& aaarrghhhhh
And there in a nutshell is why we have Brexit. A ruling class based in London with no genuine clue if what life is really like in the rest of the country.
Makes me so angry. And sad.
if you haven’t had to pay SE property prices then it’s quite hard to appreciate how difficult it is.
@$&*$$*@$& aaarrghhhhh
And there in a nutshell is why we have Brexit. A ruling class based in London with no genuine clue if what life is really like in the rest of the country.
Makes me so angry. And sad
What are you on about?
I now live North of The Wall. Almost as far from the SE you can be in and still be in England.
I lived in the SE for 5 years. Hated it. It did lead to some opportunities that allowed me to get to the position I'm in now.
There is a lot of poverty all over the Country. Go and pay a quick visit to Ramsgate to see the luxury and glamour that the Southerners live in.
A holiday is pretty much essential for general well being. Depending on how much you spend on it determines if it’s a luxury or not.
Good food is not a luxury.
Re-read my whole post. By holiday I mean a trip abroad, and "good" food I was assuming to be luxury items since eating well (not the same thing) can be inexpensive with proper planning and sensible purchasing.
Where do you get your deposit from? Why do you think so many people rent? They can’t be bothered to fill in the mortgage application?
Good point. No need to be an arse about it though, did you not see the wink I left you?
Mort – £2k thereabouts
Car – £800
So, for the mathematicians that’s £2800 so far.. ok?
Food – £400
Schools – £1000
Sodding about being a human £800
And the total is ?? What d’ya reckon??
£5k
Boom!
No business of yours what bloody %entile they sit in, what social demographic they sit or aspire too.
Those figures are realistic, sorry if you don’t get the concept. Maybe read a book on it.
Not up here they aren't. Mortgage on my £98k mid terrace is under £420, car is considerably less if you're not paying PCP and schools are paid for through council tax (there's an easy saving).
The problem is that £80k flat in outer London will cost £350k. So a couple earning a good combined wage of £70k will still struggle to afford it
Absolutely agree, it's all relative.
@$&*$$*@$& aaarrghhhhh
And there in a nutshell is why we have Brexit. A ruling class based in London with no genuine clue if what life is really like in the rest of the country.
Makes me so angry. And sad.
Except, you know... *whispers* London voted to remain.
And there in a nutshell is why we have Brexit.
Besides, pretty sure London voted to remain.
A slightly different take on TJ and Bikebuoys numbers.
£50k per annum. A rich person according to some. Working in London, living in a typical family home.
Gives you about £3k per month.
£1750 mortgage
£150 council tax
£150 heat and light
£400 train ticket
£600 food (£20 per day for a family of 4)
£100 car (probably underestimated)
Already spent £3150 per month. Not many luxuries there either.
Outside of London, average combined mortgage and season ticket costs for the 16 most affordable commuting towns is £1403 a month. Average monthly food spend for a family in the East/South East/London is £250 a month.
£50K a year is £3085 a month. That leaves £1432 a month for everything else.
no kids so DINKYs, considerably better off than friends who have multiple children, but they have the flashy cars.
mortgage is going down well, i reckon 4-5 years to get to a negligable balance,
the horse seems to be fed well.. i fancy going to a 4 day week, (financially i'd manage,) so does the wife. we argue over it, i want her to step up her career (so i can go part time) she says the reverse for me..
i worked hard to get education, qualifications and promotions. now its all about working smart..
i hate hearing the politicians talking about hard working families..
Outside of London, average combined mortgage and season ticket costs for the 16 most affordable commuting towns is £1403 a month
Which are these? Will that get you a 2 or 3 bed semi? Might get you a 1 or 2 bed flat if you're lucky.
Average monthly food spend for a family in the East/South East/London is £250 a month.
£250 for a family of 4? £2 per head per day? Really?
Like molgrips, I'm living within my means from month to month, but whenever something unexpected happens I'm f***ed over.
Still struggling after being made redundant 3 years ago. And before that happened I wasn't exactly a big spender.
Pension contribution has been cut to the government minimum to try and eek out some margin.
Boils my piss when my rabidly brexiteer grandparents mouth off about how we should be having kids etc and how how they struggled to buy a house too in their 20's. Theyv been retired now longer than they were in work. I havent got a margin to be 3.9% poorer in 10 years time, let alone have kids!
Average house price in Bristol is £330k. Assuming a 10% deposit and a mortgage over 25 years,
Mortgage = £1200/m
Council Tax = £200/m
Water/Gas/Electric = £200/m
TVlicense, Internet, Phone, Mobile(s) £80/m
Insurance = £40/m
Food for a family of 4 - £500/m
So, that's £2220/m just to live.
That's without considering transport (£150), childcare (£1000), maintenance of the house/car/kids/clothes (£££).
This could easily be £3500/m just to live.
Add to this maybe student loans at £300/m, Pension £200-400/m £4200!!!
Two people earning £80k (total household income) would bring home £4700 between them...If interest rates go up by 3%, they're in the red. What should they cut down on?
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Go and have a look on Right Move and see what you can get in Luton for £1000 per month. Hardly a rich persons house.
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I ca't even find how many people the £250 per month is supposed to feed.I'll ask you again, how can you provide good food for £2 per person per day?
Go and have a look on Right Move and see what you can get in Luton for £1000 per month. Hardly a rich persons house.
Who said anything about a rich persons house on £50k a year?
I ca’t even find how many people the £250 per month is supposed to feed.
Family of four according to the ONS. That's the average.
I’ll ask you again, how can you provide good food for £2 per person per day?
Google it. There are lot's of guides on how to do so bearing in mind for many people it's not a choice, they have no option other than to do so.
Well according to Zoopla my house would be £1050 a month rent (I live in Luton) thats a 3 bed 1930’s semi with garage and a big garden, 25 min walk to station and 23 min train to St Pancras.
Interesting reading others views on this subject, especially the North/South differences.
I've posted on here before about how I got used to liivng way beyond my means back around the turn of the millennium after getting caught up in the whole 'Must have nice car/expensive crap/great job' rollercoaster and that when it didn't work out I ended up with a lot of unsecured debt and a very poor state of mind for multiple reasons. Took a good 4-5 years to pay it all back after landing a well-paid job and doing as many hours as I could to get back to zero. I'm now only working 4 days a week but still earning ~£30k a year and only buy stuff that I can easily afford. Not averse to using credit but it's only for small amounts and a short timescale, no 3 years 0% deals etc. If I worked an extra day a week I could easily earn an extra £5-6k a year but I value the extra day off more, means I can get out on the bike more, see friends and family easier and generally step back from the madness. I don't have kids or a mortgage though. Don't want kids but a place of my own would be good so that's the only big debt I'll have in my future, if I ever get to buy one. A mortgage on a single income is hard to get and will eat up a large chunk of my wages!
When I see friends or work colleagues slaving away all hours possible just to tread water with their new cars, big house and holidays I don't pity them or criticise them, it's their choice. What I do do is realise that I wouldn't go that way again, a cheap car, the odd camping/biking trip and a modest home will do me fine.
What should they cut down on?
Children.
I don’t think they can afford them.
Who said anything about a rich persons house on £50k a year?
Quite a few on here consider £50k a year rich.
Google it. There are lot’s of guides on how to do so bearing in mind for many people it’s not a choice, they have no option other than to do so.
So they are poor people then.
As I said £50k per year is not well off.
As I said £50k per year is not well off.
yes it is. just not if you try and flog yourself on that SE treadmill.