[Closed] Just run into the ex..

You should probably get a new freezer!

Zulu, i laughed! 🙂

You should have been driving the car at the time...

Zulu, i laughed too! 😀

no good with out pics of the ex

why does it still kick me in the guts

About a year ago I saw my ex of 8 years previously twice in two months near where I live. That was a bit weird. And last night I saw another ex from 3 years ago. We weren't even serious, and she was mental, but it still freaked me out a bit. My solution is to pretend they're not there as I walk past 🙂

Made me giggle too Zulu! 🙂

We spent 8.5yrs living together so i guess it was effectively a marriage. I didn't speak, just looked away. She looked scared TBH.
Still hurts tho.

18 months-2 years is the average time to "get over" a long-term relationship so don't be too hard on yourself

I've seen my long term ex a few times since I got married.
Each time I was on my bike and he was driving his XK 8 Jag or his big jeep 4x4. Pretending to not see him at traffic lights was great fun, even when he was sitting opposite hand on horn and trying to get my attention.

It just verified that age old saying 'man with small P*n*s needs big (engine) car'.

Oooh - I hope hubby doesn't read this.

Maybe you'll never see her again md.

She looked scared TBH.

Its the same with my ex girlfriends when I see them.

Usually its when they realise the restraining order was just a piece of paper.

Usually its when they realise the restraining order was just a piece of paper.

LOL.

I have way too many exs for this to be a problem.

all my ex's are so far in the past I doubt they'd recognise me any more 🙂

Usually its when they realise the restraining order was just a piece of paper.

Indeed. Gaffer tape works better than paper.

I have way too many exs for this to be a problem.

You make it sound like an achievement?

PMSL !

It just verified that age old saying 'man with small P*n*s needs big (engine) car'.

So, from a girl's ppoint of view, is this [i]really[/i] true?

- because you're human!

deadlydarcy - Member

It just verified that age old saying 'man with small P*n*s needs big (engine) car'.

So, from a girl's ppoint of view, is this really true?

Someone is feeling very insecure right now 😉

No restraining order against me!

I did tell her last yr that i never wanted to see her face, hear her voice or hear her name mentioned ever again. I said things that in retrospect - whilst true - were probably not good for me to let out. That's why she was looking scared, although apprehensive is probably closer to the mark.

Grrrrr.

..never mind 18 months, how about 18 years..

My first true love, we were both 19. Yeah, call it 'lust' 'puppy love' but it was so intense. We were both so into each other. All over after one silly falling out.

Didn't end badly but she went off to Uni, I moved to London, we never lost touch so much as I guess thought it would never be the same, just moved on. I often wondered what happened to her, heard snippets, but at same time it was a kind of unspoken question that never got raised with mutual friends

18 years later I walked into a doctors surgery in another totally unrelated city and there she was.

Her smile, that sparkle, just the same. One of those rare occasions when I was pleased the doctor was running late. We chatted, laughed. She was happy, married, two boys. I was happy, married, two girls, almost the same ages. She was just as I remembered her, all the good times came flooding back.

The tannoy called my name. There was an uneasy silence. "Really good to see you" she said. "You too". We both knew exchanging numbers was not a good idea. One last smile and she was gone.

That was 7 years ago. I occasionally wondered when the next time might be.

If you parted on the bad terms that's easy but try parting in good terms that's hard.

😐

@ DD in my experiance always true, men with big cars are always trying to make up for something lacking

I drive a Clio

I don't have a car.

Touché

Hmm.. that's something you carry around with you that your long term partner/wife/family never get to really know about.. previous girlfrields.. like some kind of locked safe in your brain that only you have the key to.

But yes.. took me what, 3-4-5 years to get over that first big relationship...

[i]We spent 8.5yrs living together so i guess it was effectively a marriage. I didn't speak, just looked away. She looked scared TBH.[/i]

just how scary can a muddy dwarf be?

This scary
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My ex-wife drove me to drink and I didn't even have the decency to thank her. (originally W C Fields)

think yourself lucky, some of us still have to see our ex's on an almost daily basis for years after splitting! 😕

I will have one of my exes as a supervisor on my placement next year. That should be fun working with her for a month.

"That was 7 years ago. I occasionally wondered when the next time might be."

It never dies.

I've noticed that all the boys with the ' big wheeled toys' haven't shouted up.

Opportunity for gratuitous Spaced quote:

I still see all my ex's. Well, not so much see as... watch

Zulu - excellent.

Muddy - Don't worry chap my ex still can't speak to me without getting angry and it was her who totally screwed the whole thing up. So don't take it too personally, I think there is always one in a broken relationship that holds resentment and I found it tends to be the other person – funny that.

No problems with mine - we are perfectly civil to each other. I can hold my head high and look him in the eye, trouble is he tends to look me up and down. 😉

Life's too short to fall out with people.

I saw an ex of mine a while ago in the local B&Q, we're talking 14 years since we broke up and she gave me a look like it all happened earlier that day - ****in weirdo!!

Unfortunately for me, i'm the one with the festering resentment... 👿

muddy - you have to move on from feeling that way. It doesn't help with the healing process.

Help me out with the freezer gag.

I finished it with all my ex's (not an achievement by no-stretch) and I still miss my last ex so very badly when I hear Everything About the girl "Miss you".

She might have finished you for other hidden reasons other than what you think. I finished mine as I was at the wrong stage in life and I could see I was crazily in love and it scared me rigid.

Oh well.

it may be the horrible smell as she is hanging up in the loft which kicks you in the guts?

Ah

Hora - no, i reckon i know pretty exactly why we split up.
Thing is, i let her do it to me twice! She left & i managed to talk her into giving it another go only for her to do EXACTLY the same thing EXACTLY a yr later. She is a coward at relationship stuff & both times managed to engineer a situation where we were with friends & in public.
The last time she did it whilst out for a meal with friends! 👿

Think of the goodtimes and on a sleeping morning, wheel her out of your back catalogue once more for a quick spin

Can someone please define a "big" car?!

We have a very small one and quite a big one (for carrying clobber in) - does that mean I have a mid sized schlong?!

It just verified that age old saying 'man with small P*n*s needs big (engine) car'.

You do realise that I (personally) have owned a Toyota Aygo, a Toyota Yaris, A Smart for two and a Mercedes A class don't you? 8)

Does this mean I am a well-hung homosexual? 😀

Yes.

Probably - I've never met you in person. 🙂

Kenny Senior - Member
Help me out with the freezer gag.

http://tinyurl.com/26ah4fe

...or someone who is completely at ease with themselves. 🙂

Average sized willy, but its filled a fiat multipla......

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Hora
Must be something about that song - still can't listen to it without thinking of her. You just need to remember that beneath the regret - you went your own ways for a reason - good or bad.

Alternatively stalk them on facebook!

P.S i drive a toyota hi lux - and belive i don't have to make up for anything!!

What about big vans? Same as big cars?

I drive a skoda, and apparently a rather selfish bike obsessed rubbish boyfriend, yet my ex comes back for more... how do I upload videos from my mobile to here?

Surf-Mat - The car thing is all a bit tongue in cheek, an old joke really that has a hint of truth about 'big engines in sports cars'.

It takes me years to get over someone, unlike the majority of my ex's who seem to happily move on immediately! Don't worry about it dude - what's for you won't go by you, as they say.

Surf-Mat - The car thing is all a bit tongue in cheek, an old joke really that has a hint of truth about 'big engines in sports cars'.

I think its down to a mans inner confidence in his physical self as a whole. On the bike I've never had a big bloke have a go at me in his car/take the mick etc. Its always the average-assuming/slight looking blokes etc who seem to have a 'problem'.

I drive a skoda, and apparently a rather selfish bike obsessed rubbish boyfriend

That's one giant leap out of the closet there.

I drive a Land Rover.

It's like a penis, only smaller.

I think its down to a mans inner confidence in his physical self as a whole. On the bike I've never had a big bloke have a go at me in his car/take the mick etc. Its always the average-assuming/slight looking blokes etc who seem to have a 'problem'.

I do notice a difference in other drivers attitudes when I drive the Jimny or the Bimmer. Never has a single aggressive "act" against me in the Jimny, the Bimmer seems to get some blokes (usually in a small engined Audi/VW/Alfa and more recently Saab) really riled even when I've done absolutely nothing to upset them. Blowing a kiss usually helps... 😉

I've got a landrover.. does that mean I have a small winky? 🙁

ah, never mind, it keeps me happy! 😉

Wouldn't worry about the ex thing MD.. I split up with my ex of 8 yrs after she'd made me depressed - and I mean properly ill depressed, finally realised she was mental, and finished it.. cue 6 months of nightmare..

but, I'm now happily married with a gorgeous little baby.... still miss the mental ex in a strange way tho 😯

I drive a 4.2 litre 4x4

Landcruiser Amazon?

karinofnine clearly your penis is tiny then girlfriend
Hora you live in a fantasy land

Its always the average-assuming/slight looking blokes etc who seem to have a 'problem'.

Surf-Mat - close, Y60 Patrol - the car favoured by private armies the world over (along with the Hi Lux and the 'Cruiser)

So does the whole "big car" thing apply to 29ers as well? 😉

Surf-Mat - Member
the Bimmer seems to get some blokes (usually in a small engined Audi/VW/Alfa and more recently Saab) really riled even when I've done absolutely nothing to upset them. Blowing a kiss usually helps...

Try living on an island, I regularly see me Ex of 10 years. She was the one that ended it. I moved on, have remarried and am very happy with my life. She's still bitter and single.... I always wave and smile when i see her. She doesn't.

Cynic al - Indicating with [i]what[/i]? BMWs don't come with indicators unless you option them - which less than 5% of BMW drivers do.

"We" don't need such mainstream so called "safety" items - they are for cars like Fords and Vauxhalls 😉 People just move out of our way. 😉

Back to the ladies - met my wife when she was 17 and I was 20. Got married three years later. Still happily married 11 years down the line - a huge luxury that neither of us has to worry about long term relationships with ex partners!

because you care and have a heart. life's a bitch eh?

LOL at Bikingcatastrophe

7 year old Hyundai for those that care about such things.

Hora you live in a fantasy land
Its always the average-assuming/slight looking blokes etc who seem to have a 'problem'.
You mean people like you then? And to be fair me.

junky I'm 6ft1 and 220lb... although 80lb's of that is around my gut 😯

i run into ex's all the time. It seems that my type are sheffield hallam design under/postgrad students and they are a tight knit group. Best thing is to cut off all contact and try something new.... (i've got a date with a girl from Eindhoven Design Academy instead now... :s )

Some fun answers here 🙂

A nice lift from the black, suicidal depression of a few hrs ago. Couple of hrs sleep after work seemed to help.

dont supose you could slip er a quick one , share a mars bar and move on ???

Thing is, i let her do it to me twice!

Strapadictomy?