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 binners
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I wouldn't normally ask. And please excuse my over-emotional meanderings

I've just got back from the funeral of a good friend. Cancer. She was an utterly lovely human being. Scathing. Cynical. Arsey. The best! She's 3 years younger than me. 3 weeks ago I was at her wedding. She wanted to get married to the top bloke who she loved, and who loved her right back, before she died.

So.... If you love someone, then please go and tell them you love them. And then just tell them again. Just so they know that you mean it. Then tell them again. Just to make sure. You may get slapped at this point. For taking the piss. But it's probably worth it. Promise.

I think I'm running the risk of sounding like one of those bloody awful, half-witted identikit Facebook posts, put up with a picture of a ****ing rainbow or something, but please excuse me that too

I'm going to pour myself a whisky and have a bit of a cry now, but please.... Could you all do me that favour?


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:22 pm
 Junkyard
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Binners STW loves you

Have a man hug from us all

Off to hug my kids


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:24 pm
 matt_outandabout
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*like*


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:24 pm
 andyfla
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With pleasure, MrsFla has been away for a few days so I would do it anyway.

Not much I can say at this point, enjoy the whisky.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:24 pm
 kcal
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very good point, sir..


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:25 pm
 deadlydarcy
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I love you binbins.

You're a hard man to love, but I love you more the harder it gets.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:26 pm
 DezB
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Binners STW loves you

Have a man hug from us all

Agreed! You were missed on that Online dating dilemma thread.

My boy is here, so I'll tell him.

[edit] Told him. He gave me a "you're weird, Dad" look 😀


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:28 pm
 wittonweavers
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Have just texted the missus.

Any minute now the phone will beep and I will be forced to explain that i'm not buying anything new for the bike...

EDIT- ""why what have you done wrong?"" 😀


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 7:55 pm
 garage-dweller
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@Witton 😆


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:00 pm
 athgray
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Well said binners. I was at my wifes cousins wedding a few years ago. The situation almost identical. She died from cancer a month later at the age of 33. Makes you understand how precious life is. I will do as you ask.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:02 pm
 piemonster
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Just advised the GF my feelings.

I did it in a stupid voice so she didn't think I was taking the piss


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:04 pm
 bearnecessities
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*Looks around*

"I love you Makita"

Sorry Binners, will raise a glass in a bit.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:05 pm
 CountZero
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😐


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:06 pm
 cyclistm
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Blimey its dusty in here.

(Great post Binners)


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:09 pm
 MrOvershoot
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bearnecessities - Member

*Looks around*

"I love you Makita"

Sorry Binners, will raise a glass in a bit.

After all your tribulations & being a top bloke you don't need to say sorry to Binners.

Glad to see I'm not the only bloke that turns to mush over good people being dealt a shit hand


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:17 pm
 chewkw
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I am alone in GeordieLand so where do I spread my love/gene? 😯

My parents know I love them without saying.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:19 pm
 lemonysam
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I am alone in GeordieLand so where do I spread my love/gene?

I'm also alone in Geordieland...


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:21 pm
 alexpalacefan
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Done. Nice post fella

APF


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:22 pm
 Bunnyhop
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Hubby is stuck behind 12 bikes in the garage, not one of them works properly. He's fettling away.
I'm going to fling open the door and shout 'I love you' in a really loud voice.
He's bound to come up quickly, bang his head on something and shout at me but I don't care.

Hugs from me to you Binners. Life is s*^t sometimes.
bunnyhop x


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:24 pm
 stevedoc
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Just told my wife the same , but like you yesterday I was at my best friends fathers funeral , a well loved man , who lets be fair played the second father figure in my life , his family are mine and visa versa ,

Binners im sorry for your loss ,life is far to short , enjoy the cry it does help , it did yesterday


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:25 pm
 Alphabet
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I've just told my SO. Thank you for reminding me and I'm sorry for your loss.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:31 pm
 muddydwarf
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No words mate.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:34 pm
 rOcKeTdOg
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Because of my job I get a bit hardened to death and serious illness, you kinda have to be or it'd rip you apart but it's so different when it happens to someone close to you.
live for today because sadly tomorrow does come


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:50 pm
 john_drummer
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Mrs_drummer has just gone through treatment for breast cancer. I regularly tell her I love her. I think she's going to be ok


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:50 pm
 chewkw
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lemonysam - Member
I am alone in GeordieLand so where do I spread my love/gene?

I'm also alone in Geordieland...

I am not into husband and husband thing you know ... 😆


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:53 pm
 bikebouy
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Good post Sir, gooooood post.

You clearly are right, we do go around with blinkers on sometimes.

MrsBouy is away with her mates celebrating, I've just texted her saying I love her and her reply?

"Have I been drinking"

I kid you not 😆


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:53 pm
 alpin
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nice one binners....
buti think these sum up what you are trying to say much better than you ever could....

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Posted : 27/02/2015 8:56 pm
 toppers3933
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I tell my wife and kids and parents and sisters that I love them as often as I can. Because you never know when one of us isn't going to make it home again.
Have a hug from me binners old bean. She was clearly loved.


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:56 pm
 bigblackshed
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Done.

She gave me a "what was that for?"

"Sometimes you need telling"


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 8:58 pm
 lemonysam
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Texted our lass at her girls holiday in Edinburgh - apparently she loves her cheeseboard more but I think that's fair. She didn't love me enough to invite me up for the rugby certainly...


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 9:03 pm
 jamj1974
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Done Binners. Too right that life is a shite sometimes. Tell people you love them!


 
Posted : 27/02/2015 9:06 pm
 keefmac
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life really sucks some time Binners. I missed the chance to say goodbye to my dad when he died so I make sure I tell my wife, daughter and family everytime I speak to them.


 
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