have a look at the technique section of the music radar guitar forum. trawl through and you will find loads of similar people have similar issues. some good advice to be found.
i’ve also just read ‘zen guitar’ which is quite thought provoking.
i am coming to the conclusion that i just want to be able to chose a song and learn to lay it to a level i’m happy with. indeed thats why i picked up a guitar 4 years ago and gave it ago, but sadly kind of lost way a little on that. i read a great definition the other day… ‘3 chord hobbysist’. thats me!
so right now my level is a bunch of basic chords and i’m really comfortable with them.
going back to losing my way… the problem i have realized was from trying to learn just from books and dvds, and why my playing stagnated for the best part of 2 years, is that whilst i enjoy working at new techniques i cannot find the interest to work on musical examples that i’m unlikely ever to play again after progressing to the next chapter. so basically i was spending all my efort trying to learn something the book said i should whilst what i really wanted to do was learn ‘the man who sold the world’ for example.
now i’ve got a couple of you-tube derived song lessons i’m enjoying working on right now (i can play them, i can@t sing and play just yet… damn that bits hard), and the next couple of songs are ready to go. i also feel comfortable enough now, and for me this is huge progress, taking a simple song i love, that perish the thought there is no youtube lesson for, and having a go (bowie’s ‘bewlay brothers’ if you want to know) trying to pick out the strumming patter by ear.
but at the same time i’m working through an electric blues set of dvds and soaking up the (new to me) techniques (but not getting to hung up on not being able to rattle of the example tracks to perfection). and i also had a look last night at the new intermediate method on juistinguitar and again whilst i can’t see any relevance to what i currently play i will go through it because its more skills i can use and maybe develop as needs arise.
wish i could afford lessons though.