It goes like this..... Dec 2011 I started dating a woman who'd just been dumped by her husband of 15 years. I was described as her 'rock' and we were a couple. Three months later she got 'confused' and dumped me saying she wanted space... only to be back on my case within a few days saying she made a mistake and we got back together. I then learned the night after she dumped me she went for a drink with another fella and it turned out he was boring.
We moved in together fell out, she moved out in April this year and we carried on seeing each other and things were OK, but the same problems hung around. We're both quite hot headed and when we argue boy we went for it. We ended up falling out again 10 days ago.
I desperately love this woman and she's admitted she loves me but we can't live together.... I've spent the last week feeling quite ill and convinced another charmer who goes to the roller rink she works at has seen a crack and gone for it. Friday night I came out of Pizza hut with my daughter and her car (financed by me, in my name) is parked outside a pub.
Temptation got the better of me and I went in, I knew there was someone else involved and there was. She was sat with a guy who's a bit of a nice guy but also renown for being a bit opportunistic. I confronted them, poured my soul to her in front of him and left. We spoke yesterday morning and she told me she loves me but it can't work. I've begged her to talk to me, giving me hope that we could meet up on Tuesday night.
I went for a skate tonight and she wasn't working, even though she said earlier she would be. After some driving about and calling her she told me straight. She's in a departure lounge with this fella. He was offered two places on a family holiday and they were going 'as friends' and was sorry for hurting me, but now I know the truth. I'm devastated, I feel like a total pratt. She's a trainee beautician and has waxed this fellas back on a few occasions and chatted with him at the roller rink. I don't think anything was going on before we split, she just craves attention and he's pounced as soon as she's announced she's single.
Now, the relevance to the thread is this. In January, here 9 year old Yaris was having issues so stupid me suggested trading it in for a new one. So the £1800 trade in was agreed and we bought a brand new one that costs £200 a month. Now we've split up she's saying I bullied her into it and whilst she's paying for the car I now have 2.5 years to be tied to this woman, because of a car.
She's off with him on holiday and I have a spare key. I could probably just about get what is left owing on it, but she'd be left with nothing for a new car. Should I even stop and think about this or shall I go get the car and just do it??
I have the documents of ownership etc so it's above board.