<p>It goes like this&#8230;.. Dec 2011 I started dating a woman who&#8217;d just been dumped by her husband of 15 years. I was described as her &#8216;rock&#8217; and we were a couple. Three months later she got &#8216;confused&#8217; and dumped me saying she wanted space&#8230; only to be back on my case within a few days saying she made a mistake and we got back together. I then learned the night after she dumped me she went for a drink with another fella and it turned out he was boring.</p> <p>We moved in together fell out, she moved out in April this year and we carried on seeing each other and things were OK, but the same problems hung around. We&#8217;re both quite hot headed and when we argue boy we went for it. We ended up falling out again 10 days ago.</p> <p>I desperately love this woman and she&#8217;s admitted she loves me but we can&#8217;t live together&#8230;. I&#8217;ve spent the last week feeling quite ill and convinced another charmer who goes to the roller rink she works at has seen a crack and gone for it. Friday night I came out of Pizza hut with my daughter and her car (financed by me, in my name) is parked outside a pub.</p> <p>Temptation got the better of me and I went in, I knew there was someone else involved and there was. She was sat with a guy who&#8217;s a bit of a nice guy but also renown for being a bit opportunistic. I confronted them, poured my soul to her in front of him and left. We spoke yesterday morning and she told me she loves me but it can&#8217;t work. I&#8217;ve begged her to talk to me, giving me hope that we could meet up on Tuesday night. </p> <p>I went for a skate tonight and she wasn&#8217;t working, even though she said earlier she would be. After some driving about and calling her she told me straight. She&#8217;s in a departure lounge with this fella. He was offered two places on a family holiday and they were going &#8216;as friends&#8217; and was sorry for hurting me, but now I know the truth. I&#8217;m devastated, I feel like a total pratt. She&#8217;s a trainee beautician and has waxed this fellas back on a few occasions and chatted with him at the roller rink. I don&#8217;t think anything was going on before we split, she just craves attention and he&#8217;s pounced as soon as she&#8217;s announced she&#8217;s single. </p> <p>Now, the relevance to the thread is this. In January, here 9 year old Yaris was having issues so stupid me suggested trading it in for a new one. So the £1800 trade in was agreed and we bought a brand new one that costs £200 a month. Now we&#8217;ve split up she&#8217;s saying I bullied her into it and whilst she&#8217;s paying for the car I now have 2.5 years to be tied to this woman, because of a car.</p> <p>She&#8217;s off with him on holiday and I have a spare key. I could probably just about get what is left owing on it, but she&#8217;d be left with nothing for a new car. Should I even stop and think about this or shall I go get the car and just do it??</p> <p>I have the documents of ownership etc so it&#8217;s above board.</p>