I think it’s commendable that people are offering help to others, even strangers, in any way they can, but a lot of folk on here really need to have a think about how they see all other people, not just those immediately around them or other STWers. They need to step outside their cosy little bubbles a bit, see the real world around them with a bit more objectivity and fairness. The recent ‘laugh at fatties’ thread showed many people to be complete hypocrites; making the right sounds on some threads, playing the ‘compassionate soul’ to gain the approval of others, then going and being utter dicks on others threads. People need to think of their attitudes at all times, not just when it suits their own personal needs.
There isn’t as much casual racism on here as there once was, because many are prepared to challenge such bigotry, but there is still a fair bit of nasty misogyny and casual homophobia. And several people just couldn’t see why it was wrong to be hateful to overweight folk. If you need telling, it shows that you’re ignorant.
So, nice one, mmb, and good on yer. But people, have a bit more of a think about how you perceive others, and how your behaviour may affect them. Banter is one thing; abuse is wrong.