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Posted 10 months ago #
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allthegear - don't worry about signing the posts, just add a photo
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You want a photo??
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Geek here is a ginger cat, for most the day he lays and sleeps, the rest of the time he eats and shits. Is it because he's content in his world or has he excepted he's a ginger and given up hope on finding a mate..
Bean however is a phycotic nut job of a moggy. Always out hunting, sometimes comes back to feed and. Is she content or doing that relentless search for a mate or food. Geek knows his food is there, why hunt for something else when it may taste foul..
I'm sure that Bean has a fair bit of variety and i'm sure some he enjoys some more than others. However! Bean is unpredicatble, she'll bite and scratch when it appears she wants attention, so is she happy in her world. Geek just lays and purrs his way through life.
Nobody tells a cat it needs to have a mate, but it's instinct to find one, at least on occasion.
Humans however are brought up thinking it's an essential part of life to share it with another and this is the source of desperation leading to clouded visions of whom people are when we meet them, giving us the delusion that they are a suitor, no matter how unsuited they are, they stay together through countless arguments and suffer in the uncompatability of each others souls.
Through the yearning and inbuilt desire to not be alone, humans will put themselves through unhappiness as they strive to find a partner, to fit in.
Once people stop trying desperately to find the one, they find it much easier to open up the doors for the one the come along.
Waffle over, if anyone can make sense of that please translate in a positive way as i haven't a clue what i've just gone on about.
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Posted 10 months ago # -
You want a photo??
but nothing too exciting, you will get yourself in trouble
Posted 10 months ago # -
makes perfect sense sharki... no need to translate
Posted 10 months ago # -
okay...
will that do? It's bikes I have in the living room (still being decorated after laying my own wooden floor...)
Rachel
Posted 10 months ago # -
that is so provocative!
you have your own pole
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oh poo - never thought of that!!
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try again?
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And here was I trying to show I wasn't a girly girl and all you notice is the bloomin' pole!!
Rachel
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To drag this kicking and screaming back on topic, I'm single, not through choice initially but I'm beginning to enjoy it now.
The reason I'm single is something to do with reverse psychology, in a dating situation when I get asked what I do/like, I tend to say 'I'm a process engineer, it's dull but it pays the bills, I like riding bikes, being outside, taking stuff apart and making it work betterer, reading books, watching movies, playing squash, visiting new places and generally having a good time, in all I'm fairly dull how about you?'
At this point the lady in question seems to think that I'm a gloriously interesting person, and a relationship follows, up until the point where they realise that I wasn't lying...
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Rachel, your posts show there is much more to you than a 'girly girl' that's why it took me so long to realise you were a woman!
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better?
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up until the point where they realise that I wasn't lying...
better than being accused of lying!! (believe me - that hurts)
Rachel
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Rachel - you just had to get your knees in the shot didn't you? you flirt! lol
Posted 10 months ago # -
better than being accused of lying!! (believe me - that hurts)
Yes, I know how that feels, you are upfront an honest with someone but they are so cynical ans suspicious they find fault where there are none. It's like two people walking though the countryside, one sees the flowers and the trees and says 'life is beautiful' the other keeps turning over rocks and then complains that 'It's full of creepy crawlies' some people have half empty souls to match their half empty glasses!
That was a bit too deep for me wasn't it - lets go back to asking for photos
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Actually, Supertramp, I think they're my dad's knees...
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It's like two people walking though the countryside, one sees the flowers and the trees and says 'life is beautiful' the other keeps turning over rocks and then complains that 'It's full of creepy crawlies'
I'd be complaining there's too many cahs and not enough cashpoints....
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Actually, Supertramp, I think they're my dad's knees...
I'm so glad I didn't admit to anything else
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Yeah - he's 65!!! lol
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Yes, I know how that feels, you are upfront an honest with someone but they are so cynical ans suspicious they find fault where there are none. It's like two people walking though the countryside, one sees the flowers and the trees and says 'life is beautiful' the other keeps turning over rocks and then complains that 'It's full of creepy crawlies' some people have half empty souls to match their half empty glasses!
I know that feeling, my ex would often ask 'Can I do/spend X on Y?'
To which I'd say, 'Yeah, we can afford it, sure thing'
To which she'd say 'You don't want me to, you're stopping me from doing things'
Ho hum...
Posted 10 months ago # -
nothing wrong with being 65, i remember when i was ... no i don't the dementia had set in by then, doh.
Posted 10 months ago # -
I feel like a voyeur on here but without seeing any exciting outcome to all the subliminal flirting.
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subliminal? is it that obvious?
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where did everyone go?
Posted 10 months ago # -
LOL @ the wind up pic
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I've never seen bikes pole dancing before - genius!
Posted 10 months ago # -
Well, I don't actually have many photos of me taken recently - I'd probably get accused of false advertising if I posted one of me in my twenties!!
Rachel
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Nice nicolai
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I know. Her name is Ulrika.
Rachel
edit - (she says - suddenly checking that the images no longer have any location information in them...)
Posted 10 months ago # -
Well, I don't actually have many photos of me taken recently - I'd probably get accused of false advertising if I posted one of me in my twenties!!
Rachel
you're still in your twenties surely?
Posted 10 months ago # -
Single, definatly not out of choice. I go through stages of being happy with my situation and being nigh on depressed about it. very much a up and down thing.
Posted 10 months ago # -
Single. I caught so much flak last time around for the amount of time and money I spend on cycling, and looking after my dog, and going to work (?).
I kind of maybe possibly would like someone to do stuff with, but they would have to like bikes and dogs and the countryside and not be insecure or jealous/possessive and have their own thing going on too so they would not be clingy, oh, and not smoke, and not be on the dole, and be single. See? The shopping list starts out short, and rapidly grows! lol
In the meantime I am having a totally brilliant time being single.
Posted 10 months ago # -
Karinofnine - you are right about the shopping list! Though maybe we all just think about the details far too much, when we should be just be taking the plunge. Nothing ventured nothing gained and all that
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