If she isn’t, there’s no way in the world I’m putting my prize vegetables anywhere near it thank you very much!
Yebbut… you would though, wouldn’t you?
In my circles of mates I think it’s an attempt to be just a bit more honest. So if a (morally reprehensible, obviously) conversation happens to go along the lines of “I hate so and so, she’s just irritating/ unattractive/ not someone I like”, after about 5 seconds of reflection, both sides of the conversation will generally realise that, being morally reprehensible specimens, if said lady was actually available and either of us had any chance whatsoever… well, you wouldn’t say no really.
As opposed to “If I were single, and she were single, and we’d both had a bit to drink, and we happened to both be naked in the same place, I would actually say to her ‘no thanks love, I’m not interested’ “.
It sounds like some chaps on this thread are rather more upstanding though, which is to be applauded