At work. I was put on the same team as him when I joined the company. He sent me an email welcoming me to the company. I thought he was being friendly. We generally chatted over email. After a couple of weeks, I actually figured out which coder he was. 😛
He sent me his number and said if I wanted to go out and socialise with my new colleagues to let him know. I thought he was being friendly. I arranged some metal nights that he and another coder attended. At one point he drunkenly carried me across the dancefloor to try and dance to Nine Inch Nails. I thought he was being friendly.
Eventually he invited me out to dinner… I then had a vague inkling that he might fancy me, but quickly dismissed it as an arrogant and preposterous notion. Went out to dinner, I think he then realised that when it came to dating I wasn’t the sharpest tool in the box. After the meal he sent me a slight tipsy text that read, “I LIKE YOU!!” I then realised he wasn’t just being friendly. We hit it off, and we’re off to Glentress in July for our third wedding anniversary! 😀