Yet in the same vein I don’t socialise with many work people, I used to when I was younger and the job was a bit all consuming! Now I love going home and forgetting about work, so got friends from all walks of life and rarely socialise with work people.

Pigface there is no more affairs/cheating going on than in a lot of other jobs. It is just more open I thinka s people talk about it because we often spent more hours with a crew mate than with a wife/husband/partner.