jools, you’ve got it pretty much spot on there… the more ideas you go with the better your artist will be at interpreting exactly what you want and how and where you want it.
research your tattooist though… good tattoos aren’t cheap and cheap tattoos aren’t good (to coin a phrase)…
also if an artist has a long waiting list, that’s a good thing, if someone can see you the same day, they’re maybe not so hot…
research, research, research…..
be picky… really picky. this is going on your skin for life. if there’s even the slightest thing you don’t like about the artist/studio/tattoo, then thank them for their time and leave