What water supply and pressure do you have? Is it mains cold and gravity / combi hot? I only ask because if there’s a wide difference between the two, your new shower may well howl in a similar way.
Some modern showers can tolerate this, others need the cold equalised. We solved the issue temporarily by part closing the isolating valve on the cold feed. A pressure reducing valve is the other option. The max difference is normally part of the shower specs.
For your other query, stick up a pic of what you have currently and what you’re trying to fit. You can get a backplate which sits on the wall and gives you tails at 150mm centres, whether that’s easy to convert depends on your current pipe configuration.