Wear what you like, many died to allow you that freedom of choice, it would be nice if we could just respect each others choice. I’ve served for 20 years, I still have four to go, I’ve deployed to Bosnia, NI, Iraq and Afghanistan. In these places I’ve seen humanity at it’s worst and at it’s very best.
I’ve watched as men and women carry out the most selfless of tasks to protect the innocent, I’ve seen medics breakdown when they’ve failed to resuscitate a young child after stepping on an IED. Watched the fallout as a young man realises that a civilian was just killed in an exchange of gunfire and he may have been responsible. I’ve attended too many remembrance services for those being flown home for the last time, listened as their friends spoke fondly of the mate they will never sink a pint with again.
I’ve seen war, I’ve lived it, its shadow permanently left on my psyche. Only the naive and uninitiated glorify war; the rest of us see it for what it is evil, hateful and destructive, a maelstrom of confusion and violence that destroys lives, whose reach goes beyond the comprehension of those who sit at home waxing lyrical on their moral high ground.
This bullshit debate happens every year and it’s as bad as politicians highjacking the appeal for their own ends. The poppy appeal is there to help all those who have served and their families when they need it, it’s that simple. The act of remembrance is personal, remember who you like, how you like, just do so with decorum and respect. For some it is a deeply personal day, many stood amongst you will have personal demons come visit, it will be a deeply painful and emotional day.
Stop the debate and just be mindful of your words and actions.