Personally i prefer it when a buyer has their number availible to me
Not that i want to call them but when im booking their item for collection i can put their phone number in and Royal Mail will send them txt updates of where the parcel is and when its arriving and let them know of any issues
Why dont you want someone having your number? what’s the worst they can do, call you up and you can hang up and block them if you want to
The fact they already have your address having your phone number seems like a non issue to me but not everyone sees it like that