Can anyone explain what would happen if we just told NI to be independent. Then they could re-join the EU or Ireland depending on a referendum (we all know they work well in deciding big issues).
Would that improve things or make them worse ?
Are they destined to be divided by generational old views ?
I suspect this is the sort of thinking that led to the NI protocol in the first place. The UK put soldiers on the streets of NI for decades. We fought to retain NI. A significant proportion of the people in NI believe really strongly in the Union and want to be part of the Union. The UK has spent 100 yrs fanning that sentiment. We came to a settlement that was working fairly well for all involved – then 23 yrs later essentially want to ignore that agreement.
This is not as simple as just saying “off you toddle on your own then”. In general, people who do not want to be part of a United Ireland don’t want independence they want to be part of the UK, with the Queen as head of state, no role for the catholic church in the machinery of state, etc. many of them have fought for it, some have lost their lives for it etc. They would see themselves being sold down the river, for a situation which is less of what they want and almost certainly closer ties to Dublin (and I think any sensible observer would expect eventual unification).
This is not just a “NI” problem – UK governments have contributed to the division there for decades and a lack of understanding of the issues has lead the UK government, and frankly, voters in the rest of the UK to create the mess that exists in NI with Brexit.