Mrs G passed away last night in her sleep
I found Mrs G this morning peacefully sleeping in her bed for the last time. Spent all morning crying, talking to the police and paramedics. Managed to get the kids to school before getting home and breaking down completely. Didn’t want them to witness all the commotion.
Completely devastated, cannot describe how i feel. Don’t know how to tell the kids later, or what to tell them. Feel like my world has been ripped apart.
Don’t know how i am going to carry on, how i am going to afford the funeral and lots of other things going on too.Posted 3 weeks ago4130s0ulMember
Mate, so sorry for your loss. don’t be afraid to be honest with the kids. it’ll be hard but they will be able to take it and i’m sure in time will appreciate being part of this process.
Everything must feel out of your control and up in the air but you will come through this and for the good of you and your kids you will carry on no matter how hard it is.
Just remember you’re not alone and aside from the official lines of support such as posted above you have a whole load of internet strangers here who will be here for you whenever you need it.
don’t be afraid to ask for help, i know in your previous thread there were offers of time and energy for you, those offers will still be there and if it makes this stressful time any easier then please do take us up on what’s available
Sending you a virtual hug xPosted 3 weeks agonewrobdobMember
Oh no that must be awful. So sorry for your loss. Theres tears in my eyes just thinking how bad it must be right now for you.
It won’t seem like this for a while, but you’ll get through this. Why do I know this? Everyone on here who has read about your difficulties recently has noticed what a great husband and dad you are. Not just because you’ve put your family before your own interests, but because you’ve also been brave enough to share it with the rest of us. That takes real guts as guys aren’t “supposed” to talk about this sort of thing (which is changing thankfullly)
So try to stick around and let us know how things are going, even if it’s just a rant and rave about how crap things might be. For all the petty arguments and weird things that occur on here there is a genuine caring attitude towards people who are struggling.Posted 3 weeks ago
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