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  • Mrs G passed away last night in her sleep
  • Premier Icon gnusmas
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    I found Mrs G this morning peacefully sleeping in her bed for the last time. Spent all morning crying, talking to the police and paramedics. Managed to get the kids to school before getting home and breaking down completely. Didn’t want them to witness all the commotion.

    Completely devastated, cannot describe how i feel. Don’t know how to tell the kids later, or what to tell them. Feel like my world has been ripped apart.

    Don’t know how i am going to carry on, how i am going to afford the funeral and lots of other things going on too.

    Premier Icon weeksy
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    Arse. No real words of help other than…. Damn. Sorry to hear that.

    So sorry, no words to help. Sorry.

    Premier Icon Sandwich
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    Oh mate, I’m so sorry for your loss. Remember to allow some bend in your life so that you don’t break.

    Premier Icon wwaswas
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    Shit, I’m so sorry to hear that.

    Hold your kids this evening and worry about the rest tomorrow.

    Klunk
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    very sorry for your loss 🙁

    fossy
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    Premier Icon neil the wheel
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    Oh dear. No words.

    footflaps
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    I’m really sorry to hear that.

    On a practical note, you can get a grant for a funeral if you get certain benefits or tax credit..

    https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments

    Premier Icon eddiebaby
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    Really sorry to hear this. I’ll be thinking of you all.

    tish
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    So sorry to hear this.

    Premier Icon mrhoppy
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    Shit, can’t think of words to say but look after yourself and the kids and sod everything else for the time being.

    Premier Icon ads678
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    Really **** sorry.

    Get your kids from school and hug them.

    So, so sorry.

    Premier Icon Drac
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    Very sorry to hear this gnumas, I know you knew it was coming but the shock is always still real. You take care of yourself and the kids.

    Houns
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    ****. So sorry to hear this. Sat in work and is very dusty

    jeez dunno what to say

    4130s0ul
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    Mate, so sorry for your loss. don’t be afraid to be honest with the kids. it’ll be hard but they will be able to take it and i’m sure in time will appreciate being part of this process.

    Everything must feel out of your control and up in the air but you will come through this and for the good of you and your kids you will carry on no matter how hard it is.

    Just remember you’re not alone and aside from the official lines of support such as posted above you have a whole load of internet strangers here who will be here for you whenever you need it.

    don’t be afraid to ask for help, i know in your previous thread there were offers of time and energy for you, those offers will still be there and if it makes this stressful time any easier then please do take us up on what’s available

    Sending you a virtual hug x

    Premier Icon robbo1234biking
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    So sorry to hear this. 🙁

    Premier Icon zippykona
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    Can we do an STW chip in to help one of us who needs a bit  of support?

    Not sure who started the other one but I’m in.

    Sorry fella. If the kids are OK in school today let them have the day and you can have a few minutes to yourself.

    FunkyDunc
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    Words can not say.

    Get your kids home before school finish time.  Hug them, love them and get through it together.

    Sorry for your loss 🙁

    Premier Icon finishthat
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    very very sad to read , please accept offers of help when you get them , offers to do anything

    even like some quick food shopping , and just ignore some stuff  you don`t have to do everything.

    Premier Icon kilo
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    Very sorry to hear this. Deepest condolences.

    Premier Icon mrlebowski
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    Awful, just awful, I’ve no words other than sorry……

    Try http://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org a great resource for the bereaved….

    S

    Sorry for your loss.

    Premier Icon i_like_food
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    Oh god, that’s horrendous. So very sorry.

    newrobdob
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    Oh no that must be awful. So sorry for your loss. Theres tears in my eyes just thinking how bad it must be right now for you.

    It won’t seem like this for a while, but you’ll get through this. Why do I know this? Everyone on here who has read about your difficulties recently has noticed what a great husband and dad you are. Not just because you’ve put your family before your own interests, but because you’ve also been brave enough to share it with the rest of us. That takes real guts as guys aren’t “supposed” to talk about this sort of thing (which is changing thankfullly)

    So try to stick around and let us know how things are going, even if it’s just a rant and rave about how crap things might be.  For all the petty arguments and weird things that occur on here there is a genuine caring attitude towards people who are struggling.

    Premier Icon Harry_the_Spider
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    That is terrible. I don’t have the words to say anything meaningful. They probably don’t exist.

    Premier Icon funkmasterp
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    So, so sorry. If there is anything you need and I genuinely mean anything please just let me know. The Funk family is thinking about you. Big hugs to you and the kids.

    Premier Icon riklegge
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    I’m so sorry.

    If you have a paypal email, post it up; I would be happy to chip in to help with funeral costs.

    Premier Icon cinnamon_girl
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    Oh my goodness, so very sorry to read this.

    Premier Icon kilo
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    If you have a paypal email, post it up; I would be happy to chip in to help with funeral costs.

    I was going to start a thread on this aspect but I’d be honoured to help to, let us know how.

    Premier Icon bruneep
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    ☹ not much I can say that hasn’t been said by others. I’d be willing to donate to assist your costs

    Premier Icon Harry_the_Spider
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    I’ll chip in too.

    sargey
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    So sorry to hear this sad news.

    Ask people for help and hug those kids tonight.

    Pigface
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    How horribly awful, not that it helps but hugs to you.

    Premier Icon mark d
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    Hugs for you and kids.

    dont know what else to say.

    x

    4130s0ul
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    i’ll be happy to donate if something is set up.

    Premier Icon Ben_mw
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    So, so sorry to hear this.

    mrchrispy
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    Christ dude, thats a terrible place to be, go get the kids early and be honest with them, it’ll hurt but they’ll be okay.  kids are tough little buggers.
    Seriously levels of condolences and virtual hugs.

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