Can you give an example of the British Army blowing members of the IRA up please Junkyard? Don’t seem to remember that
Gibralter? Bloody Sunday? Shot in cold blood. There were mistakes on both sides. There are many, many instances of this type of conflict thoughout the world and throughout time. It either ends in brutal represssion and overwhelming force (Sri Lanka) or the much better solution of a negotiated settlement, with concessions given on both sides. After that it takes time to heal the hurt, and to forgive and move on.
I wish both sides all the best and hope it never goes back to the way it was.