For some reason, I was thinking about Simon, and how he was doing, just two days ago. Only to then discover this thread later that day. Although I never met Simon IRL, we’d communicated via SM for ages, and he was one of the few who remained in touch following my banishment from here. A great contrarian, and a true Master of Argue™, Simon always had a very strong sense of justice, and would always speak out if he felt something was wrong. And like say, Larry David, he’d often voice those thoughts others felt unable to say ‘out loud’, a trait I think many people secretly envy. One of the most honest and genuine people I’ve ever encountered online. He was far from perfect, but who’d want to be?
Simon was also an extremely kind, sensitive and thoughtful person tough. Whilst it may have seemed he didn’t consider the sensibilities of others, he was invariably right about people being a-holes, or possessing ridiculous misplaced sentimentality. He really got under the skin of narrow mindedness and insularity, and exposed it for the insecure self-righteousness it really was. But driven by that sense of justice, Simon genuinely cared about others. I know many people who’ve spoken warmly about him, and all of them have said the same thing about him, that he was ‘lovely’. He was very kind to me, at a time when kindness was what I needed. He had a ‘Bastard and Proud of it’ T-shirt made specially for me, just because he knew I’d love it.
This forum, and MTBing in this country, owes a massive debt of gratitude to Simon, because without people like him, many people wouldn’t have been enabled to enjoy biking in quite the same way. There is a big Simon shaped hole on STW, and it will never be filled.
I feel angry and upset that I’ll now never meet him. Let his legacy be that he was someone we’d want to meet, whom we’d be proud to call our friend.
RIP Simon. You’re a true legend, and a lovely man.
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