You can buy it Halfords or any other motor shop. It’s sold as brake cleaner. Isopropanol Alcohol is a degreaser that evaporates leaving a spotlessly clean surface. It’s very good at dissolving build ups of oil/gunk etc. It won’t damage o-rings, seals etc. (otherwise it wouldn’t be safe on brake calipers). Isopropanol / brake cleaner is quick and fast – just don’t soak your hands in too much or you’ll end up with cracked skin.
One comment though. For servicing forks it isn’t really necessary. All you want to do is clean off the old oil/grease and make sure there is no grit when you reassemble. I used to use Muc-off pink stuff to degrease and then rinse well with lots of clean water (just make sure everything is fully dry before reassembly). Other degreaser should be fine also.
I wouldn’t recommend white spirit or petrol as both leave a residue which could react with the new oil/grease. Meths is OK, however it doesn’t clean particularly well Meths is just 90% ethanol and 10% methanol. The only thing added to meths is purple to stop tramps drinking it! It won’t do any harm to o-rings etc.