Just stick with it. Hold the wheel out in front of you with your arms at 9 o'clock and 3 o'clock. Shake it back and forth with the wheel pivoting in your hands, about 20 times. Rotate it 45 degrees and repeat. And again until you have gone all the way around the wheel. If there's a particular spot that's leaking, try to fling the sealant so it come out and seals it. When your happy, fit the wheels to the bike and turn it upside down so the wheels are off the ground. Leave over night, they will probably go down, but just pump up again being careful not to unseat the tyre or break the rim seal – hence using the bike to keep them off the ground. Start the shaking again until you can leave them again. This could go on for a while (days?) until the side walls are fully sealed up (they are porous as not designed to hold air, only a tube, some are better than others).
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don't pump them up too hard, especially while trying to get them to seal, 30PSI or the pressure breaks the seal before it dries properly. You should be running them pretty low pressure anyway, especially at your weight. I run mine 30PSI at the back 25PSI at the front no problems. Most people I know run tyres far too hard.
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