DIY?
Wheel stand is about £30 for a basic one. Spokes from rose bikes are under 1/3 the price my LBS quoted, and none of mine have exploded (yet)!
Initialy I was a bit of a perfectionist about trueing/dishing, but after getting the front dishing wrong (the stand was QR only and the wheel 20mm, and the addapters added 5-10mm of dish) I just tweaked it in the frame and didn’t check for trueness and it’s still been fine.
Tips:
Follow charlies instructions to the letter, there are plenty of minor points that are actualy quite important (I didnt know rims were left/right handed for instance).
Good runny grease on the threads (R&R super slick left me with no spoke wind up at all which was nice).
Beer, it’s quite stressfull and took a few guesses at time, beer helped not care too much when I guessed wrong in a 50/50 decision and had to undo a load of spokes.