It really does come down to trying hem on, especially in XXL as it’s not like you can just go up a size to make room for a head shape other than the exact one it was made for.
661 / Bell / Giro (all the same company) do at least two different shapes, one is much longer front to back, more like a Schuberth motorcycle helmet. POC are almost circular meaning they won’t even begin to go onto my head.
One thing to note is it’s tempting tk pull them down at.the front to feel like they are covering their jaw, it’s not meant to work like that and the edge above your eyes will dig into your forehead or put pressure on the front part of your scalp. Most helmets fit tilted back as far as comfortable, you should get at least two fingers width above your eyebrows, i.e. there should be room for some goggles and some room for airflow above them.