I played football obsessively as a kid and rugby from high school onwards, continued both into my 20s. I always watched them too, but that never came close to as satisfying as participating.
One of the main reasons I stopped watching football in particular was the commercialism. The constant distracting advertising and the ludicrous money spoilt it. Given I had trials for a professional team when i was a teenager I think it’s quite funny that today I don’t think i’d recognise a single England team player. I could probably only name a handful of current footballers.
Rugby is a working class game in Wales and Scottish borders. In Edinburgh its a posh boys game as it is in much of England
In the East Midlands where I played most of my rugby in the Notts, Lincs, Derby league it was a classless game. I regularly played with a sheep farmer, NFU rep, solicitor, doctor, roofer, footpaths officer, lots more farmers. We played against prison teams (Worksop and Lincoln) as well as the rest of the league. I never experienced anything like the camaraderie of a rugby team. Some football teams were friendlier than others, and in London at Uni, multicultural too.