You won’t ‘off set’ the tension by using a stronger spoke
Don’t confuse stiffer with stronger. The thicker gauge spoke will be stiffer, not necessarily any stronger (in fact often the reverse is true).
So it’s fair to say D-Lights are strong enough for front and rear but would it be best to build the right rear side with a stronger spoke, to offset the unbalanced tension?
Again don’t confuse stiffness with strength. The argument is that you can build as strong, or actually a stronger wheel, with more compliance by using the thinner spokes on the non drive side (and on the non disc side on a front wheel) where the stiffness isn’t required as shown by the lower spoke tensions used. You want a stiff drive side on the rear, and disc side on the front ideally, but on the non drive side rear and non disc side front, there’s inherently a lot more stifness built in by the bracing angle of the spokes, so compensating with lower tensions and possibly thinner (more elastic) spokes can bring superior ride qualities without compromising strength.