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For little reason a mates g/f has turned feral against me, made stuff up and poisioned him against me, we are now not talking.
Same thing happened a few years ago,mate got a new house did a lot of work free for him on that house, he moved, and did the same, even helped in both moves for nothing, then all of a sudden he tells me his new wife doesnt want me round so much, probably once a fortnight, since then have seen him once.
Is this normal,as talking to other people they have similar experiences.
Shouldn't keep trying it on 🙂
Try not talking to their tits?
😉
Did he tell her he fancied you?
[s]What[/s] who is the common factor in these occurrences?
[s]My best mate[/s] A bloke I used to know got married to a complete c***, she turn him against his entire family and everyone he knew.
They now live alone with no friends so I guess she got what she wanted!
There'll be a reason.... it just won't be a rational one.
No such thing as "no reason"!
Is it because you make him watch Brokeback Mountain together, whenever shes out, and you just pop round?
That's why my missus doesn't like Hora
Women are crazy
Men is incapable of working out plurals properly.
My old neighbour - stopped being my friend after his wife arrived. He couldn't see she was a wrong'un - not until she blew his £60k house improvement loan on frilly pants and hotel bills with a selection of waiters.
Maybe she finds you boring.
Women ? I get more sense out of my dog !
fd3chris - MemberWomen ? I get more sense out of my dog !
This isn't going to go well - it's inviting all sorts of comments!
Or perhaps she really is some sort of girl'fiend'
Yup, been there. I think I was seen as a bad influence though objectively I was an excellent influence (a climbing and cycling influence). Their relationship ended rather badly with the lady taking a hammer to various things including a carbon Flite. I haven't seen much of him since he met his next love... .
maybe she has the hots for you, having you round increases her desire, the more your there the stronger it gets, to the point it is now, next time she sees you she knows she wont be able to keep it all in, make a move on her.........
failing that sell up and hit thailand for a year and have some fun....
Perhaps she finds you so irresistible that the only option left open to her is to alienate you and ensure she never sees you again.
maybe she has the hots for you, having you round increases her desire
Perhaps she finds you so irresistible
Dont think she is partially sighted,but she did wear glases.
Do you install cable ?
Put your c.ck away.
You piss all over the floor?
Does he tell her stories of your previous "adventures"?
maybe she just thinks you're a twit..?
(sorry, been looking for an excuse to use the word twit all evening.. 😀 )
^^twit!! Liking that, going to see how many times I can use 'twit' throughout tomorrow 😆
Yup, been there. I think I was seen as a bad influence though objectively I was an excellent influence
Pretty similar experience here in the past... Without doubt I was the good influence, just I suspect she put 2+2 together and got 22 and made me out to be a bad influence!
Have also lost a couple of mates before too when they forget that they have friends immediately after meeting a new squeeze... Ok we all put a bit of extra effort in when we fall for someone, but I've known a couple of people take it a bit far and alienate all their mates readily as a result.
Perhaps if you didn't go round to their house every night then they may not get sick of you. Your friends blame their Mrs for not liking you because its easier than telling you outright.
You will be seen as a bad influence
even though i have never been a big drinker and am by no means badly behaved I have had a couple of mates other halves not like me for no reason i could see
Put it down to when i wanted to catch up with my mates it was usually for a few drinks. The fact that they were always a lot more badly behaved than me (like a dog off the lead) was obviously my fault. Nothing to do with them feeling trapped or controlled or anything....
Anyway, the girls have won so i guess they are happy 🙂
edit - in fact i bumped into one mate at a kids party not long ago after not seeing him for about 5 years. His wife proceeded to introduce me to their daughter as 'the bad influence on daddy'. 'kin charming. I did nothing apart from wanting to catch up with my mate that i have known since school
Ironically, none of my mates/family can stand my wife.... 😕
wallop - MemberThere'll be a reason.... it just won't be a rational one
This.
I found out recently why one of my Sister in-laws has been vile to me for over two years recently.
Your going to love this one......
I apparentle ignored her while driving on the motorway!
She, of cource, was driving in the opposite direction at the time! 😯
My goodness I really daren't comment.
Bastard banshee.
ex-Mrs PJM was almost universally disliked by my friends. Often it was nigh on impossible keeping all sides happy, but when I eventually left her, my mates were over the moon for me. 🙂
The next lass I was involved with had the opposite problem. She got on too well with my friends and family, to the point where she tried to get them to alienate me when we were headed to Splitville and spread a lot of untruths around. It culminated in me leaving town and drastically pruning my social circle.
I had this issue, riding buddies wife was always very quiet with me, never really said much. It transpired she didn't like me, turns out this came from him blaming me for things that had happened in his house 😯 (no dirty protests I hasten to add) he didn't stay a riding buddy for much longer after that.
Turns out he was messing around behind her back, that I didn't get the blame for, a purely toxic pair to be honest
Does he tell her stories of your previous adventures
Sadly that's a definite probability. Had a mate you told his Mrs absolutely everything we all got up to. Really shit thing to do but people are people.
I had this once. My best mates Mrs was a psycho loon of the highest order. All our mates hated her for 1) how she was treating him and 2) for her simply being a cow bag.
As 'best mate' I was the one to sit down and talk to him about it.
Cue abusive emails from her to my work, libellous letters about me to my then girlfriend (now wife) at her work place, hundreds of abusive texts and voicemails and my mate cutting us all off.
They split up after another few months of him being treated like dirt.
Me and my mate went for a few beers, he apologised and we put it all behind us. He was an usher at my wedding and we're going to see the bond film next week + his new Mrs is lovely.
derek_starship - Member
My goodness I really daren't comment.Bastard banshee.
Whatever did happen with "that" story? I don't recall an outcome.
When the new Mrs Gti moved into my house she began a campaign of weeding out most of my mates including my best climbing pal, which started with her trying to stop our regular Thursday evening pint. She often insults my friends and some members of my family and refuses to travel to visit any (although we do to visit hers) but happily my friendship with my climbing buddy has survived the test and last weekend I climbed Ben Lomond with him and a bunch of others to celebrate his final Munroe. Women don't understand male loyalty, especially when it's to a mate with whom you have shared some of life's greatest experiences.
Women don't understand male loyalty
That's bollocks. I think you mean "my woman doesn't" because little in my life has indicated that women feel much differently about their real friends (not the casual ones that they fight with). There's a balance between maintaining your friendships exactly as they were before you got together and cutting off all your mates. Your loyalty should also be with your other half but that cuts both ways, nobody should get to cut off the other person from their friends and family.
she began a campaign of weeding out most of my mates including my best climbing pal, which started with her trying to stop our regular Thursday evening pint. She often insults my friends and some members of my family and refuses to travel to visit any (although we do to visit hers)
I think what atlaz means is, [b]^ that[/b]'s bollocks
When you say "new Mrs Gti", do you mean "most recently departed" ?
When you say "new Mrs Gti", do you mean "most recently departed" ?
Because if not, that sounds like a sensible next step 😯
Really, I mean really - are all these stories even vaguely real? I'm glad my sheltered little life with MrsZ and our friends / family (one sister in law excepted) is pretty stress free.
zokes, I could send you the emails if you like. And the wedding photos of me and my mate.....
Psycho nut job. I fear for her future partners.
Sounds like some of these wives/partners need to grow up.
The last time I remember anyone arguing about who was friends with who and what not was at primary school.
I don't expect my wife to like all my friends, but she does at least respect me and them enough to let us get on with stuff, and be polite/friendly when we/they visit and so on.