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That I'll not meet someone who I want to have kids with... that if I do, we won't be able to have kids... that if I do and we can... the kids won't be healthy.
Pretty much everything else seems immaterial in my opinon.
Needles
Heights
Roller Coasters.
Big feet on girls.
we won't be able to have kids... that if I do and we can... the kids won't be healthy.
+1
that some of the more prolific/contentious posters on here are actually being serious.
and 5 mm allen keys... 😯
I forgot about big feet on girls... damn you darcy.
Oh god, what if... I meet someone, we can, the kids are healthy BUT.. it's a girl and she has big feet!!
mmm maybe I have subconcious fear of 5mm allen keys..... would explain why I keep "Losing" them.
Yeti, My little girl had right golf clubs when she was born, poor thing, she has grown into them now though
stw being blocked at work
The Pixies said it best: [url=
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what if you have a daughter with big feet?
not being able to make the world a better place for mrsconsequence, i know its not my job and i know very very well you can't be happy the whole time... but every time i see her upset i want to move the world into a nicer place for her, usually something i say or do helps but the times when nothing i do will help... they scare me more than any height and truly tear something inside me.
i think we could survive anything together, i know i'm being silly... but in those moments i genuinely fear i might not be the best person for her and that breaks me inside.
Cancer
dementia
TSY when you get over that one - ie you have some kids, next it'll be that something bad happens to them, I spend all day deflecting day/nightmares that pop up with dreadful scenarios involving my babies..
Gastropods. Far more scary than anything above.
Being alone
Thanks Toys19... hopefully I'll have that to look forward to then.. I think.
Having the tories being voted back into power................. Oh!
Having to live in the UK.
Strangely death doesn't scare me, I have looked it in the square in the eyes an survived. 😈
Being stuck in a lift with James Blake warbling would be pretty scary.
Being ignored is quite worrying too...
THE fear
The deep ocean.
SPIDERS ...end of....theres one on my living room wall right now...arghhhh 😉
that i won't find a new direction
Faced the first expected fear today. FB jnr wanted to know why his arms & legs don't work and if the Fairy Godmother from Shrek could fix them. The biggest fear of all is who will care for him when we're not around. That's what keeps me awake at night.
Tough conversation FB - all the best with that one.
FB-ATB - I'd like to offer you an internet hug?
The deep ocean.
This scares the hell out of me, Big waves small boat nowhere to hide, sharks etc.
That I'll die before my daughter grows up
And cancer
Strangely I still smoke
All hugs greatly accpeted, thanks TSY. Just needed a release after having to find a positive spin for jnr and the topic hit a nerve.
FB-ATB... release away! I was worried that someone might be living my fear... so if you want to rant away on here...
That I'm going to pitch someone over the fourth floor balcony at work pretty soon. I'm sat on the bus on the way home right now which might actually have saved someone else a lot of pain.
FB-ATB Bless him! Stay strong - kids are x
That I'll not meet someone who I want to have kids with... that if I do, we won't be able to have kids... that if I do and we can... the kids won't be healthy.
+1 for me too. Although adding - what if I get too old to have kids before i meet someone etc etc...
lexiekay... that's one of the reasons I'm pleased to be a bloke!
Oh, and what size feet have you got? 😆
The injustice of it all!
And I'm a modest size 6 which i think is 'normal' - isnt it??
Crawling flat through underground tunnels with the my back touching the ceiling using a lighter to see where I'm going. Unable to turn around.
At the time it was a laugh, but it does my head in now.
Who else went potholing in Cranham woods as a kid?
Yep, size 6 is fine... I'm free tonight? 😆
Sorry - just agreed to going climbing this evening!
Blimey, you know how to frustrate a chap!
I'm scared of nuffin.
Heights.
Getting old and unhealthy.
My daughter getting knocked up at fourteen.
Parents passing away.
Looks like I'm going to have to spend another evening practicing making babies on my own then 🙁
What a delightful thought
😆
I was afraid this question might be asked.
Personal fear...Getting trapped with my arms unable to move. Such as gettign stuck while potholing. And I have an almost unstoppable urge to throw myself off high things, I genuinely have to stop myself and walk away.
But my biggest fear I suppose is the health of my family deteriorating for some reason, despite being 30 I still enjoy and rely on the comforts of my family being about to chat to, learn from and be with.
Becoming badly disabled.
I've just watched a poor chap (around 40?) pull up outside the Barbers opposite my office and it took him well over 2 minutes to get out of his car and walk with his two walking sticks to the front door. Would have taken me around 5 seconds. I can't imagine how difficult life must be for someone like that. Wish i had a magic wand to heal these people. Makes any problems i have seem insignificant.
coffeeking i too have an almost unstoppable urge to throw myself off things. its horrible.
i think my biggest fear is also loosing a family member.
that at some point in my life, I will have to try hard at it.
that at some point in my life, the curiousity of driving into oncoming traffic will become a reality (I know I'm not the only one...).
that at some point in my life, my occasional sleep paralysis will be for real.
plus other less me-centric stuff to do with my family that I don't want to write down.
I don't like this thread 🙁
I live on my own, so choking is mine. Or falling from something. Similar feelings to those above - I don't have a strong urge to pitch myself off something, but the scenario keeps running through my head.
Well it sounds stupid, but at the minute not being able to get a proper job which would give me enough income to move out of my parents house (been here since finishing uni last July). I'm quite terrible at interviews which is really bad for a competitive industry like media/tv. Slowly improving though, I think.
I have that jumping thing as well, coffeeking.
that there is an afterlife, and in it I'll be forced to relive the most shameful experiences of my life.
that I'm not a very nice person.
other people.
the truth.
ayahuasca ceremonies - the whole day leading up to ceremony time in the evening I'm a nervous wreck.
Kev