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This woman was told she would be removed from a Thomas Cook flight if she didn't cover up.
She was told her outfit was inappropriate and offensive.
She had to put on a friend's jacket to avoid having her holiday ruined.
If this person was on your flight, would you feel offended?

I certainly wouldn't. It seems appropriate to wear something like this in a warm cabin, destination Tenerife.

Cabin crew get right on my tit end sometimes. Little Hitlers some of them.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:34 pm
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Me? Pass comment on in flight clothing?

With my reputation?


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:37 pm
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Yes, those colour combinations are abhorrent.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:37 pm
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Suitcase doesn’t match outfit, shoes look a bit clumpy , not sure the mustard colour trousers works with her skin tone


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:39 pm
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Offended by it? No

Think it's not entirely appropriate for a flight? Yes

Be so concerned about it that I'd pass comment or complain? No, of course not. At most I'd tut loudly and go back to reading The Telegraph


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:40 pm
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Asking for it

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Think it’s not entirely appropriate for a flight? Yes

lul wut? Does it affect the aerodynamic performance of the flying bus or something?


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:42 pm
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Think it’s not entirely appropriate for a flight? Yes

Really ? I'm astounded at that. A Bikini top, maybe i'd be seeing as slightly inappropriate... but nothing wrong with that.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:43 pm
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Looks a damn sight better better than a lager stained football shirt!


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:44 pm
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Would I be offended? No.

But can I appreciate that others might be?
Yeah, some people are a bit more prudish than others, so TBH just putting a T-shirt on over the top for the duration of the flight would seem prudent if you wanted to avoid conflict at the start of your holibops.

Also...

It seems appropriate to wear something like this in a warm cabin,

Maybe until your at 30000ft with the aircon blasting away for a couple of hours and then I bet she'd be chuffing freezing... I never get on a plane without a hoody/jumper in my hand luggage


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:46 pm
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Nothing wrong with her clothing, I've seen worse on flights to and from southern Spain on a Friday with the stag and hen crowds.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:48 pm
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She looks fine so not offended.

But what if a person double her size does that?


 
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If there was overspill of a huge cleavage festooned with tattoos and creped with stretch marks then it might put me off my processed cheese and crackers.

As OP, does this constitute talking to myself?


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:48 pm
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Personally not remotely offended.

However, airlines have dress codes, believe it or not. So whilst this was very poorly handled by the flight crew, they did have the right to ask her to cover up or not fly.


 
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I think I'm out of touch with contemporary politics if shoulders are now deemed offensive.


 
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However she has got a touch of "oooo look at me" about her.


 
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However, airlines have dress codes

Yep, no thongs in the Qantas first class loungin Sydney, for example.


 
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But what if a person double her size does that?

They'll take up twice as much room, but not have to pay for the extra fuel burned?


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:50 pm
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she has got a touch of “oooo look at me”

I can guarantee I would too. (Look) 😀


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:52 pm
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Classy.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 1:56 pm
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I wish I looked that good on a flight. I usually look trashed.


 
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Classy.

Indeed.
The top is from Zara.


 
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If the airline ask you to put a jacket on and you want to fly with them, then put a jacket on.

Is it really worthy of national news coverage? It smacks a little of self importance, and attention seeking to me.


 
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However, airlines have dress codes

Yep, no thongs in the Qantas first class loungin Sydney, for example.

On show or underneath clothing?

Same for Male & Female passengers?

I don’t see any problem with her state of dress, I can’t see what the fuss is about 🤷‍♂️


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:02 pm
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@CaptainFlasheart was that Australian or UK thongs?


 
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 It smacks a little of self importance, and attention seeking to me.

Please see

However she has got a touch of “oooo look at me” about her

😂


 
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Oh and apparently she was "left shaking and upset" because of the attention that was drawn to her. She then went home and tweeted all about it.


 
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Apparently wore the same outfit on the return with no problems, so the problem doesn't seem to be the crew, rather the swiveleyed gammon(s) who kicked up a fuss on the outbound flight perhaps forcing the hand of the crew to implement some weird dresscode rule.

Hopefully brexit will keep some of these people in CenterParks


 
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Surely that photo was on the way home anyway, if it had been taken over here she'd probably be looking a bit nippier colder.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:08 pm
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shoes look a bit clumpy

No problem with those in business class...
...or so I hear.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:11 pm
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I really don’t understand the weird shit that happens with flights. Dress codes for travel? Why doesn’t the same apply to buses and trains. The bit where the pilot introduces himself is bizarre too. I’d like consistency in my mass transit goddamn it! If Cpt Nick gets to do an introduction I want Dave, who drives the 192, to be given the same opportunity.


 
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Offended? I really try to hold onto more of a pre-2012 sense of the word. I'm offended by people calling me a ****, but not by of a bit of midriff.

As luck would have it, we have rules set out by law in regards to obscenity, the Lady in question is in no danger of falling foul of them, and yes I'm sure Thomas Cook has dress rules, probably to avoid them having to deal with pissed up blokes in Football tops getting a bit over friendly on their aircraft, but like most big corporates, rather then expressly stating them before purchase, they'll bury them with a load of other caveats to try to minimise their exposure in a 6000 word document constructed of as many clunky 'legal sounding' words as possible.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:14 pm
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No problem with those in business class…

That photo was in First...

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Posted : 14/03/2019 2:16 pm
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Jeez, is that how much they cram you lot in these days? Was way more room when I used to fly. Mind you, my shoes didn’t take up half the allocated space.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:19 pm
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Big baggy trousers and a bra? It does look like she's just forgotten to put her top on.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:20 pm
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Was way more room when I used to fly

Those bassinets are deceptively roomy, I gather.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:21 pm
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Oh and apparently she was “left shaking and upset” because of the attention that was drawn to her. She then went home and tweeted all about it.

Well they did put an announcement over the PA about her and her clothing. Seems way over the top.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:22 pm
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Apparently the airline has a policy against travelling in underwear, which seems reasonable. But that's not underwear. Maybe they thought it was? But the whole shitey way it was handled suggests it's just bellendry

Purely personally, as far as "look at me" goes I don't think it's really a fair comment. I mean, yeah a lot of clothes choice is about how you look, dur, but I don't see anything that's shouty or outrageous or particularly attention seeking, it's really within the spec of Just Wearing Clothes.

(and besides, thinking with my knob for a second if she's trying to say "look at me" she's essentially drawing attention away from a rather lovely and characterful face towards a less noteworthy frontage. I can't say I'd go phwoar or pay her more attention than I would if she was more covered up, she is attractive for the full package and especially for the wee nearly-smile not for the bits she's "showing off". I think that top + huge breasts could well be very shouty but this isn't)


 
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But that’s not underwear. Maybe they thought it was?

To me, that does look like underwear. Perhaps its just the photo though.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:29 pm
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Not sure quite how to put this but I'm pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that, so yes I can understand why there are dress codes for flights. It's not like you can politely move and sit elsewhere in the cabin.


 
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However, airlines have dress codes, believe it or not.

Yes, detailled in the small print, but exactly what is appropriate clothing? The dress code says appropriate clothing must be worn but does not give any further detail. her outfit is appropriate for a holiday in the sun, a business suit would be appropriate for first class business flight. The man in t shirt and shorts was appropriately dressed on the same flight!!


 
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Could a gentleman wear her outfit on a flight? Would that cross dress code boundaries? I'd still not be offended though.


 
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You can see how a tshirt might be fine, but a man without any top, or a women in a bikini top, might be viewed otherwise. Neither would "offend" me, but having a minimum dress code on a flight (or in a pub or restaurant) is absolutely fine with me… as long as it's set out clearly.


 
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I wouldn't be offended if everyone was on the plane naked but then I don't get offended by what people wear or don't wear. However, I realise the world doesn't run on what I get offended by and if it did it would be a much more liberal place.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:40 pm
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I would rather a lady dressed like that than the pissed up rugby fans I had to endure going to Malta.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:43 pm
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I am offended that someone was offended by her attire. I’d have expressed my dissatisfaction with the original person taking offence. She was on a flight to a sunny holiday.

Jeans in business class will be next. It’s a slippery slope.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:45 pm
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but exactly what is appropriate clothing?

My standard travelling attire - Speedo's, string vest, Panama hat and wellies is just what i feel comfortable in

Flashy has a different standard, I understand....


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:45 pm
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I have lived in the tropics.

That looks like formal wear.


 
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reminds me of those footballers who wear gloves with short sleeve tops. Are you cold or not?!

If she is soooooooo hot that she literally can not wear anything else other than that tiny, almost bra of a top, then why isn't she wearing shorts?

She knew it was provocative, she thought she might get away with it, and she didn't.

And no, I am not offended, she looks lovely.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:46 pm
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Not sure quite how to put this but I’m pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that, so yes I can understand why there are dress codes for flights. It’s not like you can politely move and sit elsewhere in the cabin.

Doesn't that say more about "a lot of blokes" rather than they way people dress?


 
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I am offended that someone was offended by her attire. I’d have expressed my dissatisfaction with the original person taking offence. She was on a flight to a sunny holiday.
Jeans in business class will be next. It’s a slippery slope.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:51 pm
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Not sure quite how to put this but I’m pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that

Struggle with what?


 
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Not sure quite how to put this but I’m pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that,

Eh? Why?


 
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I don't personally care what she wears but you can imagine an older person or somebody of a religion valuing 'modesty' might find it offensive.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 2:55 pm
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I am always surprised to see wimminfolk dressed up for flights - tight skirt etc. I'd have thought it would be excruciatingly uncomfortable after about 10 minutes. Much more appropriate to wear a bra and baggy trousers!


 
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Not sure quite how to put this but I’m pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that

So you think if your daughter dressed like that men may get overly excited and make a mess? Yep, totally her fault....

Thanks for that Mr President.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 3:07 pm
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Not sure quite how to put this but I’m pretty sure a lot of blokes would struggle sitting next to my daughter on a flight if she dressed like that

Quote of the day! 😆
Images of furiously masturbating men on flights, or a woman who can't keep her arms under control... Which is it!?!


 
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Eh? Why?

Oh, just by going on the attention she gets when she's out with us fully covered up & obviously with her parents and knowing what she has to put up with when she's on her own, all because she's a young woman with big breasts.


 
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I really don’t understand the weird shit that happens with flights. Dress codes for travel? Why doesn’t the same apply to buses and trains. 

Try getting on a bus in Spain like I did without a shirt on 😳


 
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Perhaps I used the wrong word, maybe uncomfortable being sat in close proximity would be a better way of putting it... Not sure where the masturbating came into it, maybe it's you with the problem?


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 3:18 pm
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because she’s a young woman with big breasts.

As long as her big breasts weren't hogging the armrest I fail to see the issue.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 3:21 pm
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It's why I can't get on aeroplanes. They announce it over the tannoy n everything.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 3:21 pm
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....maybe uncomfortable being sat in close proximity.....

Wowsers!

Maybe the wimmins should have their own sealed off area in planes? Maybe we could extend gender segregation zones to more aspects of public life?

Just so men don't need to feel uncomfortable....!!


 
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Would have thought bare shoulders are ok ?

Would have thought a bare midriff is ok ?

And we know bare arms are ok ?

So what's the problem ??

I don't know .... but it's their plane and their rules... so cover up sweet cheeks and stop with the whining .... you should be so lucky to be going on hols.


 
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Offended by it? No

Think it’s not entirely appropriate for a flight? Yes

I've seen other photos of the girl so kinda agree with this. But it definitely appears that the situation was badly handled.
But again this thread does show how little empathy some posters have on here for other people. We're all different and if putting an extra garment on for a couple of hours makes others feel more comfortable then why not.


 
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In the depths of winter in the middle of Tunis I saw two Russian women dressed like that, with acres of burned, wrinkled flabby flesh and sagging dugs on display while every Tunisian was modestly attired in dark, thick winter clothing. It definitely caused me offence. But the girl pictured, no.


 
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sagging dugs on display
Disgusting
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Posted : 14/03/2019 4:22 pm
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I think we need a picture of globalti in order to judge if he should be seen in public!


 
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No, not in the slightest.


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 4:29 pm
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I think we need a picture of globalti

I've heard women struggle to sit next to him on planes...


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 4:33 pm
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I too always find flights too warm, but I have so far restrained from stripping to my boxes.


 
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No ,but I can guarantee little j would ask ,in A VeRy LoUD voice, “why does the lady only have a bra on”.


 
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She’d be alright if she was American - they have a right to bare arms.


 
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so cover up sweet cheeks

to be fair, I usually cover mine.


 
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If she is soooooooo hot that she literally can not wear anything else other than that tiny, almost bra of a top, then why isn’t she wearing shorts?

She's wearing loose fitting, cool looking trousers- have you ever been to hot countries and noticed how literally everyone wears shorts all the time? No? Correct.

And besides, why would it even matter? It's not about whether she's sooooooo hot, it's about not bloody telling other people what they can or can't wear for no good reason. You don't need to be able to justify your clothes. Thank god!


 
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reminds me of those footballers who wear gloves with short sleeve tops. Are you cold or not?!

I pretty much wear short sleeves year round, but will also wear gloves. Strangely my hands get a damned sight colder than my forearms and elbows. If you’re forearms are feeling the cold to the same degree as your fingers I think you’re basically broken.


 
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have lived in the tropics.

That looks like formal wear.

+1

You don’t need to be able to justify your clothes. Thank god!

Totes turning up to my next flight with a few bits of strategically placed gaffer tape on then!


 
Posted : 14/03/2019 5:46 pm
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Not relevant what we think - it's Thomas Cook's airline and if you want to take off you do as they say.

Why delay a plane unnecessarily?

(Sounds like a staff training issue though.)

I would rather a lady dressed like that than the pissed up rugby fans I had to endure going to Malta.

That would be my sort of nightmare.


 
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I'd rather see her than listen to a bunch of pissed up Scousers/Glaswegians/etc.
Oh & squawking kids of course, those things wind me up.


 
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Why delay a plane unnecessarily?

That question directed at Thomas Cook? This lady certainly didn't aim to delay the plane and was never in control of that decision, but the plane crew were.


 
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You don’t need to be able to justify your clothes.

Try wearing something out of the 'ordinary'. Then someone will usually be along shortly to tell you why you should. Often the same type of person who will also project/infer motivations for why you chose to wear those clothes. These proclaimed 'motivations' will not normally be complimentary 🙄


 
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